Okay, so I haven't been online sarging for a few days...

And I went back on Plenty of Fish today, and I found out that a couple of days ago this HOT Persian chick sent me a message:

"Hey hunny, I was looking at your pic is so so sexy, tell me bout self, maybe we can hang out for a drink or somethin."


So she is asking me to "tell her about myself", I hope this is an IOI because she said I look sexy, BUT it also sounds like a shit test (or an interview!), and I don't want to end up trying to qualify myself like some wimpy approval-seeking AFC. So how do I answer this? How do you sarge girls that are already showing interest?

~ HotIce

dude send her a reply saying
quote "i could tell you but then i'd have to kill you besides i could tell you anything on this p.o.f. thing why take the fun of finding out for yourself in the flesh"
honestly this always gets a funny response

"Well, I can see that you are the fast moving type! Is there something else I should know about YOU before you get to buy me free drinks ?"

Just ignore her question about you, its not like your gonna die.

There you go, a straight example of what to say. Just like you whined on another topic about us "natural teachers" !

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lol, thanx. BTW, I didn't whine on natural teachers lol I just meant that for newbies some canned routines can help, cuz nobody becomes a natural right away in the beginning... I have a friend who's a natural, and he says the same thing, "don't use routines, just go out and game them..." which doesn't really fly when you're just learning this stuff. I don't endorse all canned routines, just SOME of them might work well depending on your experiences. I agree with you that natural game is MUCH better than canned game, but nobody starts out as a natural.

And that response is MONEY dude! Pure GOLD.

I agree with your comments about canned material and natural games, certainly helps to build confidence knowing you can just pull some out of the bag if the going gets tough.

As for the online sarging, she is giving you a hoop to jump through and if you give in too easily she will take it that you are low value. I would semi-answer her question leaving lots of ambiguous SPAM (sparking intrigue) and ask her to jump through one of yours. For example " If one of her friends were to describe something unique about her what would it be?"

Mint

Oh no don't... I'm starting to blush....

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Yeah, when I sarge, I don't normally memorize lots of canned stuff. I just get into the right state and think of the attitudes of a real seducer, then I just think of a couple of topics for attraction and also use what's there in the venue. I only use canned routines in emergencies (i.e. when the conversation goes dead), not as a crutch.
Yeah, I sensed that her IOI was actually bound up with a hoop. I'm thinking the best way is just to treat it as a shit test and frame the conversation as "she wants me, I am the prize." Back in my AFC days I learned about these "tell me about yourself" hoops the hard way... so I ain't taking the bait.

How about this, I use the frame that she's rushing things and she should meet me in person before I tell her my secrets

Well its good.

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Guys,

I used the "why have you looked at my profile and deleted my email" & "tortoise/Naked or homeless" lines and had responses.

What do you suggest I do next?

Cocky Funny them or ask them a qualifing question like "what makes you unique?"

Thanks,

Mint

Okay guys, I got an update! Here's what happened next. After I said "you're the fast moving type, etc...." she responded with THIS:

"i am friendly and plus cute and openminded u so hot"

Now this looks like another IOI, but the u so hot thing is really getting old... should I just ask for her number now?

Here's my plan: I can say "well, I can tell you're cute from your pics, but beauty is very common... I'd have to meet you first and find out what you have going for you besides your looks - plus I wanna be sure you're not a guy using someone else's pics Gimme your cell # and we'll see if you can keep up with me."

Is this a good idea?

Now here I am expecting that she will give her phone number of course. I haven't done a lot of online number closes but it seems she is interested. Should I build more attraction and wait for more IOIs before going for the number close? She's already qualifying herself to me, but the "u so hot" might be a shit test... Should I jump for the number now or push-pull her a bit more?

I would first go for some instant messenger, because you've only sent like 3 messages to each other... But whatever man, I don't know that much from online game ! Take the number if you want.

Your line is fine, just leave the guy-part out of it.

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UPDATE: the chick is NOT GETTING IT!

I did the following number close: "Cute AND open-minded? That's not something you see very often I just might take you up on that offer of a free drink. Lets find out what you have going for you besides your looks. Gimme your cell number and we'll see if you can keep up with me"


She didn't give me her number, but instead, said this:

"maybe we get some drink and dinner have a good times"


So now she's mentioning dinner, I can smell the friends zone a mile away...
She doesn't seem to get it! I teased her, I came from a frame of high value... and nothing. It's basically the same as what she said before, as if SHE DIDN'T EVEN READ MY MESSAGE!

Is this a shit test, or is she just being stupid? And what's a good way to generate enough attraction for the number?