thats 3 weeks and 3 lays that I couldnt reach orgasm

the first one I went to party, shared a tequila with my girl, had a caipirinha and some beers only, wasnt too drunk, we came to my house, fucked but still I couldnt cum...
second one was with random girl, I couldnt get it up but I didnt brother cause I had a lot of jack daniels this day

and this third one bothered me really, I met with the girl Im seeing right now, we met in a bar, drank some heinekens, then went to a snooker, we played and had beers then came to my place...it was just like 1 and half or two of beer
the sex was fucking good, she cummed a lot and it felt perfect, but still, I couldnt get to orgasm

I take meds, trileptal and zyprexa for bipolar disorder... I naturally feel a not-very-high sex drive..
but man, this last one was bullshit, I drank too little...

so guys, can someone help me on this?
Im kinda thinking of seeing a doctor, maybe getting hormones to balance the meds, what do you think about it?

I love to drink beer, and this is starting to bother me

This is easy. Try not drinking at all and having sex. And if you still can't cum, maybe consult someone.

it's called whiskey dick. this is why i separate my "get drunk" nights and my "sarge" nights.

I just found this quite ironic. Your meds are causing you to have a decreased sex drive which is unnatural rather than natural. But you have a medical condition so I can't really suggest that you stop taking your meds. But I do think that the meds along with the alcohol is causing your problem.

Ah the fabled whiskey dick, try not masturbating and perhaps working out more to get the testosterone flowing more.

As a totally uneducated NOT A DOCTOR stupid retarded ass child who's advice should never be followed without first consulting a real, preferably your, doctor...

I'd be willing to bet that it's a mixture of your particular condition, medication, and alcohol.

ie. your condition requires certain meds, which increase the effect of alcohol on you at a variable rate (not always in the same way).

The increased effect of the alcohol causes, as Chief so kindly put it, "whiskey dick"


Comprende?

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grab some test. boosters at gnc. no theyre not steroids, they boost testosterone levels and sex drive. trust me this will do the trick, Im taking arimatest, which helps alot, but I take it for lifting not sex drive. It will boost sex drive though thats for damn sure!! haha

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I tought the whiskey dick was the one you couldnt get up
and beer dick the one you can't get to orgasm (kindly ilustrated by me on this post... )
hahah

so, Ill try some of the advices
I need to work out and gain weight already, too bad I think I dont have
the money for suplements and gym SPAM... but next year Ill start for sure
also gonna try not jerking, and controlling more my drinks when I know Ill get a lay... Ill see what I can do

thanks for the advices

one thing I remembered about this days, is that I probably didnt had dinner any of this days, on the last one, as I said, I didnt drank a lot, but now I remember that when we were leaving the snooker I was feeling a little dizzy already and bought water..

I'd talk to your doctor about what you're taking, what the effects of alcohol are on it, especially in conjunction with your sex drive. This could quite possibly be due to your medication and what you're taking. Perhaps you even have trouble reaching orgasm when you masterbate, in which case, that's good evidence that it's not just the booze.

How's your erection? Yes I know, that's a fairly personal question, but you brought it to the table, so let's just be adults, shall we?

I'll start by sharing my own issue; I've been a diabetic since just before I turned 14, which over the past 9 years, has had an increasing effect on my blood circulation, which as you may know, causes a little issue known as erectile disfunction. Yeah, it kinda sucks, I can get a hard-on just fine, but what is strange, is that using it tends to make it go a little rubbery; whether with a girl, or by myself. By myself, it's not a big deal, easily compensated for, but in a girl, if it ain't fully stiff, it doesn't work so well and that really makes it hard for me to get off. So, I swallow my manly pride and take Cialis, which is a competitor of Viagra, but it stays in your system for 18-36 hours (depends on your metabolism and other factors) and so although you don't walk around with a raging hard-on that whole time, when you do need one, it's easy to get a solidly usable one. I personally don't like Viagra, as it only lasts 4 hours, which isn't long enough for my taste and many people experience facial flushing, dry mouth and other symptoms that occur less frequently with Cialis and several other brands. Well, that was about as embarressing as it gets and I'm still alive, hopefully you learned something and now it's your turn.

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I would say that you need to see a doctor. Just like with normal boozing, you should eat before you go out drinking. I know a few guys that have the same issue, they can go for hours and get hard, but they just cant finish and I really have no easy answer for that. Try to alternate beer/water so you dont have to drink as much and you will be adding in some good fluids rather than straight booze.

As for Cialis and Viagra, NOT recommended if you dont have erectile dysfunction... but that stuff works AMAZINGLY. If anyone out there is trouble getting it up and you can get your hands on some viagra or cialis, that stuff is amazing.

Indeed, unnecessary use can actually CAUSE ED. This is something you need to talk to a doctor at length about.

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I don't mean to pry, but you said you were on bi-polar meds. It was my understanding that bi-polar meds that were meant to control manic episodes had potential sexual side effects. I remember my sis was on one type, and if she were to experience extreame excitement while on the drug, it said that you could become nausous as a result. I think you need to check the side effects of your medication. There's no telling what they could do to you when you mix them with alcohol. Also I remember that bi-polar people are very sensitive to energy supplements, and sometimes that could interact with their condition and result in sexual problems.

Mixing meds with alcohol will cause some weird side effects.

I can only imagine the meds are magnifying the normal effect alcohol has.


Personally, sometimes I can't or don't really feel like cumming just from regular sex with a chick, either through wanting her to come first, or being drunk, or just not getting alot of feeling. Either way, doesn't have to be the end to the night, as well all know, chicks will come multiple times, once you've got her once from penetration, use your hand, mouth, etc, 69 her, get to to give you a blowjob, handjob, or both at the same time.

If that doesn't work for you, then stop drinking, and talk to your doctor.

think yourself lucky literally if I have more than about 3 beers I am fucking useless lol I think it has got to the point of being purely psychological now though

been around this block myself

do the FAMES lifestyle

Food - don't eat junk food more than once a week
Alcohol - don't drink more than 6 bottles of beer per week
Masturbation - 1 a week maximum
Exercise - work out at least 5 days a week
Sleep - get a good nights sleep, 8 hours a night

reward yourself for doing well by buying something. Fail to meet the requirements of FAMES and have a freezing cold shower the next morning.

and you will be fine

you don't need viagra, just a regime