i want to use some sort of technique on a this girl. I know there are some things like the october man but i dont think someone who isnt a nlp master can use it effectivley, so if there are any ideas plzz share

are you freinds with her or is it just a random girl?

oh yes, we were real close for a very short bit, but then we were apart for a bit and i already know she finds me charming/handsome but i dont know if shes attracted, and i can get close again if i wanted but just want to get her obssesed.

And what if there is another girl i want that i didnt know? how would you handle that?
btw thanks

I am not sure if this would give you any help but it may who knows..But why dont you create a jealousy plot with her..Open a hb infront of her or bring her to the one you want and go from there..I think it would work in this situation but I dunno...Just thought I would throw it out there for ya...

PUA isn’t really about long term obsession, it’s about short term acceptance. All of the openers, negs, and disarming techniques are designed only to get women to sleep with you quickly. They never really address how to cause obsession.
If you want to learn that I suggest you read the book “The Art of Seduction” by Robert Greene. It is long and a little hard to read, but it tells you how to get any woman to fall in love with you to the point of obsession. I can’t really give you any definite advice because there are many different types of women and each type becomes obsessed for different reasons. It is all in the book though, it calls it victim theory.
The important thing to realize is that if you want a woman to be obsessed with you, you usually have to abstain from sleeping with them for a long time first. If you sleep with a woman right away, they will usually not become obsessed with you. This is a price that most PUAs are not willing to pay.

teasing, anchoring, and keep physical touch to a min to keep her guessing

i agree