Hi there

So I've never actually done a freeze out before yesterday... After a LMR I used to be afcish and asked "why??" or "what's with you??" and such.

Yesterday I turned off my brain and did it, else it would have been the hardest thing to do ever. She lives far away and it was her last day at my place, so I wanted to fc before she leaves the country. It's day 3.
At day 1 we kissed for the first time, not more.
At day 2 we were in bed, she LMR when I wanted to take off her bra. I had her breasts, not more, I did not have the heart to do a freeze out.

At day 3 (yesterday) her bra was not a problem. We were fooling around, my leg playing with her sweet place, she reacting.

The freeze out:
I wanted to move with my hands into her trousers and as I reached her cunt she LMR, grabbing my hand and telling a soft "no".
I tried to freeze out now, put my hand out of her pants and wanted to stand up. We had a mango we wanted to eat (she never ate one before) and I said I wanna cut the mango now it's so tasty I'm hungry.

But she didn't let me go.
She held me so tight, I could hardly stand up, our bodies entwined because of her. She was like "no, no", "what are you doing" and calling my name all the time. I have no idea how I could be so cruel and push the FO through But I did it.
With her body around me I got me a knife outta the kitchen and sat on the chair with her. I was like "stand up" and she "i'm naked!!". I told her "does it matter?" and she asked if she should put on her bra and I gave her a cold "yea"... Then we sat there, she was on my lap and me cutting my damn mango!!! I wasn't pissed or anything, I just looked like a normal person who peacefully wanted to cut his fruit, lol.

She was looking at me while I cut it.. with such a damn sad/confused face!!! I then ended the FO when I said my arm is a bit tired of cutting. But the FO already took about 10 minutes
On the (comfortable) chair we started kissing again.. then me sucking on her breasts with my fingers rubbing her pussy - outside of her trousers. When I wanted to unbutton them, she LMR again, telling me "we have no time! We couldn't stop then" Yes we only had 10 minutes left. What a shit! No FC in the end...

I know my FO was shitty, but what things exactly? Was it really only too little time at the end (or did she use it as an excuse because she knew the time)? And what I really wonder: If I freeze out AGAIN at the same spot, isn't it OBVIOUS for her that I don't want to just eat a freakin' fruit or check mails, but that she is not letting me do my work on her? Or even 3 FOs! It sounds so surreal for her not to know what's going on.

The post has become so long, sorry.
Oh and what I forgot... She is really really digging me.. she loves me from her heart, she's not just a normal picked up girl, I think it plays a role for the FO.

Waaait, so did you f-close or did you mean to say "What THE fuck"?

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No fc, I meant "What a damn situation!" -> "What a fuck!"
Edit: Lol, it sounds fun though! "We had only 10 minutes left! Hell of a fuck!!"
I better change it.

This post is about a week old so I don't know if you're going to get back to this but I'll post it anyways.

The key point in ending a freeze out is you make her commit to what you wanted to do at the time the freeze out started.

Example: You go for inside her pants. She LMR's. You start your freeze out. I think it's important to point out at this time that you should tell her, "I understand." Look her in the eyes and hold her hand and say, "It's totally cool..... Let's watch some TV." Then run your freeze out. Just be a little stand-offish.

When she starts coming onto you, and you start kissing again, tell her, "Take off your pants." It's cool to wink or whatever. But you MUST MAKE HER COMPLY to YOUR terms or the freeze out continues.

I think I got it... (but) in my case if I told her "I understand" and "it's alright let's eat mango!" she would still have held me telling "no, no, why?" and stuff. And she was so tight I had hurt her just by pushing her away from me! How to react? Like me going WITH her entwined around me to the kitchen and back to the chair? (Though I think it was cool I looked so forwarded to eating the mango, not pissed or something )

And even if it took more than X minutes I have to wait for HER to restart the kissing? No cheap end like my "my arm begins to hurt"? And if she then didn't want to take off her pants on her own I'd just restart cutting my damn fruit without looking angry or uppish?

Has anyone some thoughts on my last questions? I think it's the last things to fully understand FOs! Or maybe an article describing these... thanks!

Ok man...

Freezing her out is a 3 step process. First freezeout should be like 1 minute or something. You just get your hands off her, turn around and start talking about whatever. Second freezeout takes 3 minutes. You do the same, maybe stand up inspecting something in her room and she will call you back to bed soon. Third freezeout takes 10 minutes. This is the point where you start eating your fruit or checking your mail or whatever. Just dont make it look like a punishment. I am sure that you will be able to do it convincing. Youre an actor, your motivation is, you dont need to have sex, your fine either way. No hard feelings, you are just turned off by her behaviour.