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| Sheer Con | PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 7:27 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Aug 18, 2008 12:55 pm Posts: 213 | | was having dinner with a girl. not sure if its as friends or w/e cause i failed to pick up on signs. anyway so during dinner she asks if I have any secrets. obviously everyone does so I said ya. and then she asked if anyone will ever know them. is this an attempt by her to build depper rapport with me?
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| danieltx | PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 7:39 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:49 pm Posts: 104 Location: Dallas, TX | | Figure out if y'all were on a date or out just as friends first. I find it a little hard to believe that you couldn't tell which it was.
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| Sheer Con | PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 7:49 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Aug 18, 2008 12:55 pm Posts: 213 | | ya this was before a read the game and even tho I'm far from PUA, I'm not as completely and utterly hopeless as I was before. anyways.. id say its a pretty dumb move to ask her if we were out as friends or not. that would make her feel damn akward...
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| ace_of_spades | PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 8:04 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Wed Oct 31, 2007 4:05 pm Posts: 503 Location: London | | Yeah it would.
Sharing secrets (properly done) is a good rapport builder. Without further insight though, it's impossible to tell what she was trying to do. It could've just been making conversation.
If you like the girl - plough on, tease, kino escalate, escalate and escalate! Not all women fall into the target-pawn-pivot divide. Some are just really awesome friends. Before you do anything, make sure you know what you want. If you're indecisive, there will come a window of opportunity which you're likely to miss. You'll hesitate a second too long, the window will slam shut and you'll get LJBFd.
Any more questions - PM.
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