hey guys!
I collect rubbish/garbage for a living, yet im waiting to start University to study dentistry.
even though i have NO PROBLEM with my occupation, girls tend to recoil when they find out what i do.
ive tried mystery's way of telling girls about your ambitions but it tends to be long-winded and needs alot of already built confort, and i find in set people tend to ask early on, even if i give a smart arse answer, they tend to press for an answer!
ive also tried saying that im a student etc, but end up being found out that im lying when on the second meet. (massive DLV btw!)
I know for a fact people will write that i should just fuck girls off who have a problem or say its thier problem, but i think that ideological babble, that realistically people cant help thier own stereotypes of certain jobs and my inner game is strong enough to believe that when i reach that hook and i can build comfort for them to fall for me,
i just believe that im missing out on alot of sex!!! (or a meaningfull relationship??)lol
i need your feed back!!!!

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Hmmm..... this is a tough one. I'll give it a shot...

Say something along the lines of...

"I work for the city. I collect trash.....(dramatic pause to let them soak that in) I know what youre thinking, but I get great satisfaction helping keep the the place we dwell a cleaner place to live. (then go cocky funny) Never thought you would meet such a sexy trash guy, huh?" (cocky funny smile)

CK

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why not be upfront about it. The best thing I ever did for my game was to be genuine and honest. You seem to want to hide it.. fuck that. If you want to take this advice to the max you could even use it as an opener.

You: hey guys would you ever date a trash collector if he was cute and funny?
them: sure I guess if I liked him.
You: cool I'm Tom

if you want to use it further on in conversation I like chino's, or

Ask her what she does first

Her: I'm a teacher
You: cool what is it that you like about teaching?
Her: I love that I'm giving back to society and making the world a better place through our children
You: (rewarding her for sharing) wow you are very generous, I like that about you.. See my job lots of people may look down on me for it, but I get that same feeling of giving back to society and helping make the world a better place when I do my job.
Her: what do you do?
You: I'm a trash collector, it's really intriguing to see all the crazy stuff people throw away. We are so wasteful you know? Do you ever waste stuff?
Her:(will probably totally ignore the part about being a trash collector because your passion for helping the world completely overshadows it)

What I'm trying to demonstrate here is that it's not what you do, but how you feel about what you do. If you have reasons that being a trash collector is a good thing then you should focus on those. Focus on all the good that's coming out of what you are doing. Without you guys my house would look really shitty and no chick would ever come back here. You are an asset in nearly every guy getting laid then. Think about how many guys trash you've taken? Think about how all those guys wouldn't have gotten laid if mold and flies were everywhere flying around. You could be the biggest cause of guys gettin laid in awile. So to you my friend... respect.

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Great replies guys, I enjoyed reading them.

It reminds me one of the PU challenges I read about. Basically people, no matter what their job was, they had to pretend it was something people were prejudiced towards.

It's exactly how the other posters have said, you have to be really upfront about it, because it's almost always something which is built into a person's perception of someone else, and if you even hint at wanting to hide it, it automatically makes people think that you're doing something you're not proud of or don't enjoy, which reflects badly on your character. It's not being a binman particularly, either. I know of accountants and fairly wealthy businessmen who have such boring jobs that they're reluctant to share about them, which I'm sure works against their game.

It's exactly as the others have said, it's not your job, it's your attitude towards it. The DHV, beyond the fame/wealth/power brought by those few elite jobs, is the passion and pride you take in it. You could be competing against a surgeon with a negative attitude about his job, and so long as you make clear how much of an ego boost your job is, you'll be getting all the numbers.

Do you have any good stories to tell from your job? You can make it really interesting if you talk about people you work with and things which go wrong.

I'd also try to incorporate some sort of destruction of the preconceptions people might have. Being unhygienic is one of them. Now I'm sure it's not the cleanest job in the world, but you get to wear all the protective gear, and probably get some sort of wash time at work? You could break that down by saying something along the lines of:

"I bet you think we crawl around in it like pigs and get really dirty, don't you? Well, the funny thing is, with all the cleaning I have to go through, I probably come home from work cleaner that you do! You know, I bet I even smell nicer than you right now." [obviously you have some sort of cologne, you smell each other] "Eeew you smell like work. haha just kidding, you smell nice, like...." etc.

Jeez guys!

ive asked alot of questions on this forum, but this one is by far the best responce, i honestly didnt know how to conteract this problem and i believe youve done it!

especially the binmann opener and coming home cleaner than you line

This is what the forum is all about, askin questions and getting suggestions, rather than ''who is the best PUA?'' shitty posts. this is real life!
Cheers Guys!

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I agree, great responses from all. The big thing is being honest and show you have a passion for your job and that you are not ashamed of what you do. Be proud of it and as long as you are showing that you are constantly trying to progress in your life. Things will be great...

CK

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i think it might be a good idea to stress early on just how important your job is, and how the city needs and depends on people like you. just imagine if we didn't have trashmen. i really think you can talk about your job and DHV at the same time here. this will control the frame so that when she thinks about what you do, she won't think of you as some guy who just throws garbage in a truck. she will think of you as someone who has an important job, and helps keep the city clean.