Ok guys, after you f-close a girl, and she wants the relationship and well you tend to want nothing more. She gets mad blah blah blah...


How long would you wait if you felt the need to game her again? How would you do it? Would you do it?



Reason I ask. I f-closed a good friend of 6 years, for basically shits and giggles and things went sour. She originally told me to leave her alone, so I did. She messaged me today and I gave her, her own medicine and said, Please don't talk to me. (I guess playing hard to get). I am over her, but she was deffinately wife material. I am just not ready at this time for that kinda relationship, but I would like something like that in the future. So I figured time apart would make it easier to have the second chance so we didn't enter the LJBF zone.

Well...basically that's your answer. Move on.

Agreed with Rose.

But if you really feel she is wife material i might pull some AFC move like just straight up just talking to her about how your feeling. Theres nothing to lose really, it seems like you have already lost it all lol.

I am not phased by her anymore boss.


Things went bad because we are now at different schools so I said lets basically put things on "pause". (Im not drivin 2 hours for a relationship.) It was semi-mutual in the fact that we ended, she just wanted time apart to get over me.

My "long term" game.

Basically, I don't want to be JUST friends with her. So I won't let myself become a friend. I will still remember to wish her a happy birthday / any other holliday to show I still care about her. Which will keep her questioning me and remembering me. I will remain neutral towards her. So I figure, incase I do want a relationship with her in the future, she will now be an option since we are not in the dreaded friend zone.

So, am I playing my game right?

Ifs shes your only peace of ass keep her around.. other then that run for the hillz

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No. And I only say that because I TRIED the exact same thing. You wishing her a Happy B Day and other holidays will show you have AFFECTION for her...but that does not nessarily mean she'll have ATTRACTION for you. It's knid of hard to have a female friend for 6 years, fuck her for shits and giggles, then want her on a serious level. ATTRACTION does not work like that. Your best bet is to probably leave her alone and find someone esle. But what do I know, right?

I just want to give you all somethin to think about:
Is anyone truly ever over anyone? Feelings can be inactive or even blanketed by other feelings. Let it be hate, betrayal, or a new love ect... But, there will always be something.

That is what I believe, and you can not tell me you do not remember an ex from time to time.

I have no doubt in my mind that I will be able to uncover the feelings this girl has for me if I wanted to in the future, because I know she still has deep feelings for me. She told me she could see us getting together in the future, but for now we were done. There was no conclusion to our relationship.


I am not trying to be a dick, or prove anything to you guys. Because I don't really give a fuck nor do you. But I do appreciate the responses. Almost all of you have more experience in the field, and I truly look up to you guys for guidance and support. Yet, no one here is going to change what I am planning to do with this girl.


Anyway, put all the bull shit aside, and get back to the question.

Would any of you ever re-game an ex if so how long would you wait?

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well then go for it man...your a bigger man than me.