Hi guys. As much as I hate to admit it, I am an AFC in college, with the exception of the fact that I have much clout, relatively good looks, style and name recognition in my area. It just seems like I can't meet the women that I want. I have very high standards, so she has to be cute. In high school, I had no problem meeting attractive women. Most people percieve me as extremely driven and serious. I go out to social events, but never drink. People think I'm tight as a result. Now it seems like all interesting, edgy, attractive women are all repelled from me. I have never had a girlfriend and am begining to feel like I'll be destined to a life of isolation. How do I reverse this dangerous trend?

Get a group of guys, create a dynamite social group and enjoy LIFE! I find that usually when I get the best results in life (whether it be with women, fun, work, sports, etc...) is when I tend to not focus all of my enegry on that enviorment. So tomorrow morning wake up and create conversations with random strangers and LOVE what college has to offer.

It seems to me like you're approaching the whole alpha male concept the wrong way. If you act seriously, look superior to the others, and keep to yourself, that doesn't make you the leader. You must mingle and most importantly: SMILE. Believe it or not, if you continue doing what you've been doing so far but keep smiling the whole way through. You'll start to notice that girls are more attracted. Make sure you're on good terms with your friends when you're at a party and try to get them all to listen to an interesting story you have to say.

The above is basically the smallest step you can take to attracting women. Then you have to build a whole lot.

Another thing is, you seem to be waiting for women to come to you. That is absolutely, positively incorrect. Either make a woman come over to you from a distance or approach her yourself. Girls don't just waltz over to where you are and start flirting with you.

Remember: 3 second rule.

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Love, KATA124