I have these two chick friends who talk about sex almost nonstop. Is there any way I can use this to my advantage? I'd be like "what have you two been up to?" 99% of the time they'll say "sex lots of sex". The most I ever did was go on their computer and get a really high score on their downloaded tetris game and put "(girl's name)'s master - Calaris" as the name. I kept referring to myself as their master, and they would keep playfully trying to slap me (although im not sure if they are genuinely annoyed or having fun)

so any way i can use it to my advantage when chicks talk about sex 24/7?

well, once I pickuped up a fat blonde chick because on the bar she wouldnt fucking stop talking about fucking and dirty things..
so, we went with some people to her house, then I kclosed and was hoping for a good experienced sex partner for the night.... but I got no sex at all, not even clothes off, I was so disappointed...
the girl was just talks...

Could say, "to me you sound like all talk and no action, i could teach you a few things" extremly direct and would take bollox! but think of the rewards

alphie's got it right man...call em out and see if they have the chesticles to put their money where their mouth is so to say. if they still backdown play it off as you dont care and try a freeze out. all based on how its going of course

-diesel

i agree with alphie, direct and honest ... makes it easy ... and hopefully she wasnt fat like the other guys girl

you can even go further than alphie's awesome response. something about them being virgins...

it's on the tip of my tongue but I just can't formulate a perfect line.

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okie field report here:

I said those things to them and they responded with "Eww! You're so creepy!" and I said "so what is it about creepy guys that turn you on so much?" They said: "Creepy guys do NOT turn me on!!" *topic changes*

any feedback? suggestions?

You def should not have said that. Its direct, yes but sounding desperate at the same time. Don't sign on to these AFC approaches. Work kino or something.

I do a lot of kino already. In fact I might've even done too much at some points. At this point I can safely lean on their shoulders without it being awkward, or throw my arms around their neck while looking over their shoulder at whatever they're reading. What should my next step be?

IF there cute... fuck them. IF there ugly...say fuck um' (and move).

Has anyone stop to think that when girls talk about sex right in front of you it probably is a Shit Test. I know anytime a girl say to me that she's been having alot of sex. I say one word and one word only RESPECT and then turn my back to them and talk to somebody else. If they keep saying how much sex the've had call them out on it. I always say "So you really are get around, you should help my friend out" or say hey "lets go find you guy to sleep with and you can help me get girl to take home." When girls do this they are exerting the sexual power and trying to tell us that they can get it anytime we want and you can't. Even thougth this is true to an extent. You need to let them know it's not the case for you and you are unaffected by there sexual power.

Well, in this case these girls talk about sex openly in general. They don't talk about having sex a lot. They just dont shut up about masturbation, hot guys, types of sex, sexual inuendos, and everything that have to do with sex. In fact i have a feeling they're still virgins, though i can't be sure about that.

I was thinking the same.

It sounds like you’re in the friend zone. If the sexual banter isn’t directed at you, then they don’t see you as a sexual being. Juggler suggests that a real PUA should never joke about sex to prospects, but rather you should only take about it straightforwardly and matter-of-factly. Don’t joke about sex, but you can talk about it. You can talk about what you enjoy/are good at. If done seriously it will peak their interests. They will see you as a sexual being and wonder if you walk the walk. If you join into their banter fearlessly without being too obscene or vulgar, it will plant seeds in the back of their heads.
According to NLP once you vividly paint a picture with your words, someone can’t help but imagining it. If you paint a picture of you giving great sexual pleasure to a woman, they can’t help but imagine it. It will turn them on and change their image of you as a AFC.

Congratulations! I think everyone here just learned the lesson of not thinking critically about what someone on here tells them to do. No offense to any intelligent and experienced guys with low post counts, but generally speaking, if you see a guy with a post count below 30, he hasn't been around long enough to actually figure out what works and he's just pulling SHIT out of his ass (pun intended). Think seriously about what someone tells you to do, or you can end up messing up friendships, relationships, jobs, etc. I've even talked to guys that have been physically harmed because of saying something stupid that someone suggested; nothing like a broken nose to make you think twice!

The girls that talk about sex all the time, get guys saying crap like that all the time. Most of the reason why they do it, is because they want to flaunt their goods and are basically teasing everyone with a dick by saying, "We love sex, but you can't have any with us!" By saying, "You're just all talk, we should have sex and you can prove you're not!" or some variant of that, such as the one you were advised to use, you play right into their hands and now they get the fun of calling you a creep.

The best way to go about this, is the indirect approach. A girl that's so overtly fucking with everyone's heads, will expect direct, it's just like a stripper, or a porn-star (hell half of those women used to be the girls you are talking about, or still are). You fly in under the radar and then pop up once you're safely behind the lines and you achieve victory. If anyone that knows me, is wondering why I would choose an analogy that makes the whole thing sound like a battle, that's because most likely you're not going after this girl because you have feelings for her, cause she's a dirty dirty girl and you just want to conquer her, so that's why.

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