but i find my one-itis embarrsing, yes i took suggestions sunday i sarged my ass off got a lot of numbers been flirting with all of them....not the cure.

but this one goddamn chick jjust texted me today and told me hi she was sorry she didnt call back after the date ect ect.

oh yah i wasnt sure where to pickup after not talking to her for about 6 days of no emotional progression so i just started with comfort telling her she looked pretty today over text of course....no response but she usually doesnt respond within a reasonable ammount of time, nor do i. but im sure you guys know what this feels like around here i just took a leap.... a completely blind leap.

where to pick up?

other than that i'm not really lookin for any other advice.

Every time you post. I love you more and more.

Is this the same girl as that other post?

One-itis is not embarrassing. Everybody gets it. The problem is, most people don't get over it. See, I would have told you to punish her but you already sent her comforting words. The worst thing to do when a girl says sorry is to say it's okay. Instead, you should have been all like "don't worry. I managed fine without you." and add a little smiley or something. (I personally hate texting and recommend face-to-face)

You can still try to recover. Come up with something creative that shows your discontent while still sounding cocky/funny.

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I punished her. I ignored her all day. no matter how much she tried for my attention all she got was a blank stare. yep same one-itis. i figured that girls love inconsistancies with what your saying and what your doing, so I waited until late tonight to say everything was fine but was cold all day. get it?

well then that's great.

cat/string/push/pull/ignore/attract

try something like this: "look i'm not exactly happy with you but let's get back on good terms" then lead into something like "do you believe in spells?" or "let's try something cool"

then demonstrate value

if she likes what you show her, run some tests to find IOI.

3 IOIs: Kiss close.

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i like it. i like it alot much easier said then done though, i've never said anything like that to a girl before.

but with such quality gaming today i just thought that it would drive her mad, "the kid who always liked me and gave me attention si ignoring me" so when i threw her a bone over text i figured that she'd be thrilled to respond, but.......6 hours later im starting to think differently. thats what i hate about this girl, she doesnt seem to think im the shit no matter how i play her, she may just have too many options for her own good. or maybe she is gaming me by not responding maybe its some kinda hot chick thing hmmm.

if you are looking for somewhere to sarge my best advice is hit a bar you have never been to by yourself, on this visit the plan is to make an impression with the bar staff and make sure they remember you.
this will add social proof wen you come back and you won't be anxious about being in a new environment. You will also be outside of the usual ring of people you would see on a night out and so have the added confidence boost of knowing you won't see them again.

Also one-itis is the mental equivalent of a small dick, you have it, you know you have it , you hate it but the fucker is still attached to you. I literally cringe every time my case of one-itis clicks her fingers and I jump hence cutting her out of my life completely

she didnt respond to my text but thats no big deal. i guess. she was probably tryin to shut me out of her life but then today i was walkin down the hallway with a girl on each arm (it was planned but seeing her was spontaneous.) and i figured now would be the perfect time to show her i've got game. so i asked her out tomororw and she said ya. but she didnt respond to my txt so she will more than likely flake.and if she does it doesnt matter becasuse im expecting it and if she doesnt than thats okay too.



who knows girls are wacky.

I dealt with this about a year and a half ago. Here's the deal with one-itis. It won't work. To be perfectly honest the only REAL way to get rid of one-itis is to FUCK another woman (emphasis on the word fuck and not masturbate). I'm letting you know that if she doesnt' answer your texts, then she's playing GAMES with you (I should know, I do this exact same thing to women!). Stop excusing her behavior by saying things like she didnt respond to my text but thats no big deal and i figured now would be the perfect time to show her i've got game.

I say this not to criticize you...no... I WAS you. Don't make my mistake. If you want her as a girlfriend (that's probably too late) or if you wanted to fuck her (THAT's probably way too late). Delete her number from your phone and move the hell on.
Trust.