Ok.....to night there was a dance so i am gonna give it to you step by step and ill have some questions.

So there was this party at school(since i dorm at school it was pretty mandatory) and my school is known for shitty parties.....cuz the last 2 sucked fucking ass.

So i get ready and show up like an hour late.(good move or no?) And so i walk in and am looking for my friends to start as a launch pad to go and work on some targets. So i am there for probably 5 minutes and i find my mexican buddy and we join a group.

I am there probably about 5 minutes just shootin da shit with them and i honestly wasnt feeling like an alpha at all...i didnt even dominate the group or anything...i was pretty silent. But this one HB7 that i have been talking to sort of.....comes up to me.

HB-Eboy!!! (hugs me)
Eboy-hey whats going on
HB- blah blah blah

We just talk and i neg her a few times, and i dont know her all that well. She was pretty sweaty and i used that to my advantage. I neged her on that and she was doing this wierd thing with her mouth to cool herself down which i also negged her on.

So we cotinue to talk and she asks me to go in the middle and dance(Question- i should be the one asking right??? or is that ok that she asked me)

So we get in the middle and it turns out she is a fucking good dancer. We were grinding and she was goin nuts. She went a lot lower than i could, lets just say. (I also tried to keep my boners down while i danced, i can say i did pretty well....does that matter?) So we danced for awhile and then the party sort of died down and people returned to the sides and me and her and few and like 2 dozen people were there sort of scattered.

So this was something that i was thinking i could have deffinetly done better at, but i did try and correct myself after i saw what was wrong. So she wasnt dancing on me, but sort of just dancing and talking to me and some of the other people we were around. I cant dance to save my life. So i was reduced to just standing there and talking with her....and we would dance on and off depending on the song. But i was finding that me just standing there while she danced was a problem. (what do i do in that situation?? I just feel stupid standing there)

I continued with some negs...one i think was a bit harsh but could be effective. i want to know what you guys think

HB7-(very hyper and talking and dancing really fast)
Me-Is she always like this?
HB4-Yea pretty much
Me-I bet the teachers here hate you....you probably interupt the class with all that talking and ass shaking

(im not gonna say its great...but i just want feedback)

So eventually she asks me to come sit down....which i asked her before but she said she wanted to dance more so we did. we went and sat down and we talked...i thought for a kiss but didnt because there were people around and i didnt know if she cared or not. But i made an intese AFC move here. So we talked and it became wierdly quiet, a song came on and she looked at me and said.

HB7- i might have to do this one....do you wanna come.
Eboy-sure

I felt like i was getting pulled by a leash.....it was devalueing or at least it felt like it. We went down and danced some more and then she grabbed and started holding my hand....(we had held hands a lot of the time while dancing and i was the aggresor.)

I thought this as an IOI and i pulled her to the side and poped this one

Me-wanna know what i bet
HB7-what
Me-that i cant kiss you before you kiss me
HB7-(blushes i think) no....not yet

Had i not been a PUA in training i would probably have fallen apart and fucked up my chances. But i knew i had to make it like i was unphased and just keep and acting like a cocky motherfucker. I kept my composure and things kept going relatively smoothly. (i even started neging another girl who is like a HB7 too and a possible target for later...she is less outgoing than this girl and but i felt good and i came off with a lot of confidence) We danced a little more and then it was time for the people that were not seniors to return to their dorms. She asked if i had to go and i said no, then asked if i was a senior and i said no.

We talked and eventually she wanted me to walk with her to her car. So i walked with her and she tried to slow down a few times and i was to retarded to tell at the moment....but i think it worked to my advantage, maybe i dont know. So then i decide to go in for a kiss.

We kissed and right when i was going to pull away she did first(i know i made a mistake there). We continued down and when we got to her car she quickly pecked me on the lips and said bye.

So that was my first kinda of sarge...at my new school. Tips....pointers....anything. I know it is long but pretty much any errors you see and anything in quotations are what i want to know. Also she sent me some texts and i waited a long time to answer, prety much cuz i was typing this too. i dont know if i did it right....maybe i fucked up.

HB7-hey
I get a call on a private # and i pick it up and it hangs up (im guessing it wa her to see if i was near my phone)
HB7-i see how it is
Me-haha it looks like you miss me already

So that was the recap for tonight.....long i know but thanks if you read this far

Re: Dancing
I guess you should try to avoid being in the situation where she's asking YOU to dance, but I don't see anything wrong with it. It's an obvious IOI. but anyways, seeing that you're not that good at situations where dancing is involved (like me) then you should try to go to more dances and learn to feel more comfortable with them.

Re: Just standing there
If you want a girl that likes parties and dances, try to be a guy that likes parties and dances. It helps. But of course it can work even if you're not. If you're in the situation where you either have to dance with her more actively or she'll dance with someone else, I think it's ok to let her dance with other guys, but you have to compensate for that off the dance floor. All other solutions (like making her stop liking dancing) seem evil to me right now.

Re: "I bet the teachers here hate you....you probably interupt the class with all that talking and ass shaking"
It sounds like sometimes you're being TOO cocky and sometimes you're being TOO AFC. She might become confused, suspicious or hostile. I really recommend not using things like that until they are really a part of your personality.

Re: Kiss fail
Good job on not losing her after the error

Her pulling out of the kiss first... And then GIVING YOU A PECK ON THE LIPS... That's BAD. It's so effective on AFCs. You have to regain your dominance next time. She's being a "bitch" (female version of PUA).

- a 17 year old rAFC

I´m glad i got a repsonse...there are so many goddam threads in this forum....i didnt kno where else to post.

Well she was texting me like crazy all last night after the dance....like literally after i sent the message she would respond and i would take my time and listen to music or something. and reply lke 5 minutes later. (good? or does it matter)

And how to i regain dominance next time.....and how should i act next time i see her at school. We dont have any classes together and not even lunch either. I think i should do like a push pull....if so then can you give me some tips on that

DANCING
What really works at school parties is: After you have been dancing with a girl for while, dance with her face to face. Then rest your forehead against hers (works better if your taller than her) and pretend like your going to say something to her but dont open your mouth (make sure this looks natural not awkwad, you have to be dancing really close for this to work).

Leave your forehead there for about 2-3 seconds if she leaves her head resting agaisnt yours this is a massive IOI so KISS HER and do not hesitate.

This has worked for me at countless high school parties, plus after you have been kissing her for a while on the df it is very easy to isolate.

Seriously try this out Good Luck