| arent you just a regular prince charming... she's one lucky gal. hah.. has her ego shattered - if you get what you want, right? - and then is lucky enough to get to sleep with the guy who destroyed her mentally. But, that's the name of the game now isnt it. It happens every day, at least you are conscious of what you're doing.
That said, imo the best neg is just a straight forward dislike of her hair. If she JUST did it and you havent interacted with her, it will likely come up. SHe will likely ask you if you like it, she wants feedback on her new look of course. (if she doesnt bring itup, bring it up in a round about manner, you want to be asked nearly verbatim, "what do you think [of my new hair style / color?" Just look directly at her, like what you are about to say is very serious, and say, "honestly, i dont like it. You looked a lot better before" This is harsh.. i mean she just changed her entire face / hair look; she likely thinks she upgraded her look, right? why else do it.. well, you just told her she downgraded it and that you think she is less attractive. If this were true, the power relations between you two just changed. Dont tell her anything overly hateful, but be clear / firm that it isnt an improvement... "but who cares right, you're still the same. And, on the bright side soon it will go back to how it was."
thats my take.. gl to ya though in whatever you decide to do.
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