Yeah, I'm a mystery method kinda person. My personality type is INTp - The Thinker. I'm grade 12. She's grade 9.

There's this girl that I like. She's INFp. Meaning... she's shy and emotional.

The problem: I only know how to game average girls. I don't really know how to approach this problem. I need a way to build comfort with a shy girl. I kinda paid no attention to the building comfort part of gaming so right now I'm in a bad position to do this...

Pls help!

Edit: We have a "meeting" Monday after school. I need replies within 24 hours!

make her laugh!

talk about meaningless current events such as the mtv music awards, shes in 9th grade so they usually freak if you just mention the jonas brothers (personal fav)

got any embarrising stories? good time to bring them out, ya can even throw in a few DHV's while your at it!

if all else fails try only asking questions!

or maybe you guys just dont have all too much in common, if that's the case i'd just jump ship unless she was like a hb8-10

i forgot to mention words better be said the WHOLE fucking time, and i dont curse. silence is the best way to drive her away.

Thanks for the reply.

I don't know anything about meaningless current events I keep my precious mind away from things that don't matter or don't entertain me. TV does neither

Embarrassing stories is a great idea!

But I've already done way too many DHVs that I'm afraid she thinks of me as more of a friend that exists on a higher plane of being than a guy...

Questions: That's good. I really gotta stop talking to her on MSN, but I can't because I'm usually always online. Today I was away most of the day, but I still talked to her for like 2 hours when I got home. Any ideas about how to not talk to her tomorrow without making her go all femaleAFC about meeting me? (which she really is btw)

I should add that she has been playing very... reverse game. That's what I call it when someone does the exact opposite of what would make me like them.

And I'm sure we have lots in common and as long as I can break the ice, we'll be able to spend the rest of the day talking (but that won't happen because she'll have to go home soon)

Silence... it might not be THAT bad, but I agree that it won't help at all.

google the jonas bros listen to a couple of their songs, and tell her that you love em even more than maroon 5. ya i know its 'fake' but i prefer to call it game.

sign offline! I've never heard of anyone getting ljbf'd because of excessive value. The ONLY time i've passed up a chance to DHV was when it felt like she'd start asking herself if I was lying or not. I never am but ive just lived such a crazy life people tend to not believe me. (from living on a boat to dealin coke i've done it)

sure cut off the umbilical cord make her peruse you! sign off all goddamn day! just make sure the date is set in stone first. (afc's never flake they are too afraid to!)

as for opposite game i just don know girls are crazy.

take my advice with a grain of salt, i just wish I wasnt messing with ppls love lives here. I figure if no one else responds to this thread at least you will have my two cents.

now im cutting from double your dating for the second time today:
Be The First To End The Interaction.
Most guys make the mistake of lingering around a
woman and trying to spend as much time with her as she
will allow… whether they are talking to her on the phone
or hanging out with her in person.
By being the first to end the interaction, you show her
that you’re not needy and you have a life of your own.
And… you’ll INSTANTLY separate yourself from all of
the lame, wussy guys she’s dated in the past.(95 Deangelo)

Heh, thanks for trying to help, but I really don't think that I need any more DHVs and increasing her interest/attraction. I have to play more DLV and comfort to get anywhere.

I guess you are right that there's no such thing as too much DHV... But I'll try to be more humble. The reason I had a crazy DHV start is because I'm the leader of the newspaper club and she's in it (well, we are just starting, but she signed up).

The funny thing is that I made 3 check boxes on the sign up sheet - are you interested in: writing, photography and/or distribution? And she checked all 3. The reason that's funny is because she was dragged there by her friend in the first place and had no particular interest in the club itself. Then her friend (who's really needy) copied her.

She's being so needy with me. I don't know how to fix that. I'll just mention that I like independent girls.

Heh.. I know I'm talking too much, but I want to add that back when I was total AFC there was a girl that kept telling me that her philosophy was "independence is key". Apparently that never worked on me because I was being pretty needy eventually and I wasn't really showing that I have a life.

Oh, another thing about the original girl this thread is about. She told me like 5 times on msn that's she's "bored". I've used the lines "I'm bored. Entertain me." before, but I meant it as a random reason to talk to someone, but as a way to continue a conversation. That's really needy.

K I'll appear offline, but I bet she'll make me give her a really good reason for it.

Tomorrow I'll sign in when I wake up, verify the "date", tell her I have hw and I need to focus and sign out... for the rest of the day. I won't go online in the evening. I'll post here on Monday.

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hahahah you think she's needy now! wait until you have sex with her! rofl.

I'd like to redact what I last said about never have too much dhv according to my readings you actually can have too much value, but you can slo raise her value by givng her compliments freely! but keep them germane to the conversation like if she talks about travel say something like :thats soo cool, I didnt know that about you." or something better

Am i the only one who thinks a grade 12 should not be gaming a year 9.

Thats a 17 year old gaming a 14 year old, cmon you can do much better than that, plus its just wrong most girls that age would be heaps frigid anyway, its not worth it, plus at your school everyone will think your a freak and it will ruin your social proof

Try to imitate her body language and verbal communication!

If she talks quietly (I bet she does), then you do so . If she sits with her legs close to each other (I bet she does that too), you do so as well.

Try kino:ing her, how does she react? My problem with shy chicks is that I dont game them so hard, so I get stuck in the friend zone. YOU DON'T WANT TO BE THERE!

So if you want this girl, you better gain som attraction before it's too late.

-And btw, be careful with the negs, her self-esteem is probably low and you dont want to lower it! =)