hey guys. if a girl came up to you at a club and asked you for a cigarette, is that considered an ioi?

no...my friends would ask guys for cigs all the time. they just do it because it is easier than buying their own...they know guys will give one to them

thats why its always good to take a pack with you when you are out, even f you dont smoke.....

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I'd say it's an opener.

If she asks you for a cigg, you can transition from there. It's not a big a deal as a drink, and smokers pass around ciggs all the time.

oh bummer. So i was randomly picked by a HB10 and HB9 for a cig. I kinda neg HB10 with a sincere smile before giving her one and lighting it up for her

dont neg them because they smoke! people dont like that and they already heard it from everyone else. instead find something else to neg about and continue abit convo but use time constraint since the girls will be wondering how long you gonna stand with them after you gave a cig.

Good point about the false time constraint.

If a girl approaches you asking for a cigg you would already be smoking, so you could drag out the conversation till "you're done smoking". Or if she's alone, the polite thing to do (in certain cultures at least here in Asia) is to wait for her to be done, then walk back into the club/bar together.

its not exactly an IOI, but you could open

also, heres a nice cig trick

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-mak ... thor-way-2

Generally girls won't 'open' you unless they're drunk or you're super hot lol. She most likely randomly picked you out of the guys for a cigarette. You have to be the one to take the action and see if you can take it from there. Watch the body language, this is the best way to tell if her responses are out of politeness or interest.

When a girl asks me for a cigarette, my response is simple: "Cancer isn't good". That is followed up with a headshake and a turn in the other direction. Often girls will say something like they know smoking is bad for them and they're trying to stop and you can get a solid convo going from there.

Of course, there's the odd time she flips out but I laugh it off ..

perfect way to come out as a narrow minded nerd, gratz

Im guessing she wanted a smoke and picked someone at random or might look like they smoke. I'd try to avoid the negs that might be used if they are asking for a drink as there are plenty or other guys that will give her a cigarette.
I think your best bet is to give her a cigarette but get two out and make sure she notices this, you can then chat and smoke with her and the ice is already broken, especially if you do the pretend you have lost them in your pockets routine.

I like to do what all the other guys do, and then change it at the last minute... It gets a girl thinking that you're like the other guys, but then they notice the contrast...

I.E.

A girl asks for a cigarette... Hypothetical situation below:

HB: Hey, do you have a cigarette?
PS: You know that shit is bad for you right?
HB: Yeah, I've heard it all before

- or -
HB: Shut the hell up...

- or -

HB: Do you know that having a face like that is bad for you?

PS: Yeah - It's sad that smoking makes girls taste bad...

---That will be a response she hasn't heard, and my response to a shit test is always to ignore it. They just don't phase me. I know what I want to say, and it's more important. (This is in reference to a girls vagina. Smoking puts toxins in their system which makes it taste bad... Supposedly.)

It could be, it could not be.

Try to game the girls once they ask you for a cigarette and you'll quickly find out.

S

I do what Ozzie from RSD does with a little twist.

Girl: Can I bum a smoke?
Chief: What's your favorite animal?
Girl: ...a tiger
Chief: There's no free lunch. I'll give you this cigarette if you make the sound of a tiger. And it MUST be realistic.
Girl: THEEEEEY'RE GREEEEAT!
Chief: OMG you get two.

ok, that's never actually happened before exactly like that but that would be awesome.