Saturday night i was in a big club. After some dancing i stand with some friends to drink something.
No alcohol because i had to drive.

There was a girl who was laughing to me. But she was with 2 friends (male) so i wasn't immediately sure if one of them was actually her boyfriend.

But after twenty minutes or so, these 2 guys were leaving and she sit down just behind were i was standing. So I turned around to her and smiled.

Than it happend quite fast.
We say Hi to each other. Kissed each other on the cheek and shaked hands.

Than she asked my name and were i lived.
After that she said:

Give me your phone!

So i gave her my phone and she typed her name and phonenumber!

After that she said she had to go to her friends. We kissed goodbye and hugged.

Next day evening i send her a textmessage: that it was fun that night and that it was cool to met her. Two houres later she respond with the text!

Yeah i had a lot of fun. too bad that i couldnt talk much longer to you.
kisses xxx her name

Next day i send my email so that we could know each other better on the chat.
But until now (2 days later almost) she did not have add me.


What must I do now? Send another textmessage to her phone? or call her?
I don't want to look too desperate off course

(sorry if my english isn't that well, but i'm not native speaking - i'm from the netherlands)

if she wants to talk to you now she will, but you have to let her come to you.

you need to get out and talk to more girls, Solid game leads to solid numbers, you didn't have solid game on this one so chances are it's gonna flake, thats just the way it goes man. good luck!

also, i would avoid e-mails, and even txting and try to talk more over the phone.

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Squirrel

Okey I think I wait until tomorrow evening. Than i'll call her.
or is that completely wrong to do?

well i've got a little update
i called her and said:

(targets name) how you're doing immediately followed by do you know who i saw this night?

she: hm i don't know hihi

mejust85: well somebody who really looks just the same as you. Do you have a twinsister i should know about?

she: well where were you then?

mejust85: on this place X

she: hihi oke cool, but it wasn't me. However I de have a twinsister! (lol i don't know if she was telling the truth about that but it was quite funny)

mejust85: (I twisted the conversation to an other subject) ->
well about a week i'm in town X (the town nearby hers) In the morning i'm going to visit some friends but in the afternoon I will go in town for some drink or to the mall.

she: okej! you should text me if you do!

mejust85: well i'll see. Have to go now. Talk you later. Bye



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What do you guys think. Good phone call?

Btw when i will go to that town i don't just text her but I'm going to call her again. Because when I send her a text message she maybe easier make an excuse.

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My God, these folks don't know how to love -- that's why they love so easily.

call her. Numbers are time sensitive and you have to get on it. Do it in a casual way. Even if you screw it up its good for practice.