my good friend (lesbian) has recently introduced me to a girl she has been hanging out with and hooking up(occasionally) lately. Not to set me up with her though. this girl is not completely against being with guys, she just says she has had some bad experiences with them and just prefers girls. all 3 of us have hung 3 days in a row over the weekend and im interested in trying to take it it little further with this girl. she seems like she likes me. but im not sure if she is attracted to me. i want to say she is. Im just not sure what i should say to her. I wanna start a convo via text. and i dont wanna fall into the friend catagory. Im thinking of just being very outright with her and saying i had a fun time hanging out over the weekend and would like to do it more often, and ask her how would she feel if i said i liked her? and if she felt the same way then we should get together to try to get to know eachother better. ???????

noonne?!

The "honesty" thing might work..

Although I think we need some more info on the girl.
Like:
- How hot is she? HB scale from 1-10..
- Does she have a bitch shield up? Is she a 7 but acts like she is a 10? (Which means that she plays hard to get etc) In this case u might want to try negging her a bit so that you make it seem like you have a higher value than her, which will make her more interested in you.
- Has anything interesting/funny happened the last times you were with her? If yes, you could try to taylor that into the message, because that might remind her of how fun you were to be with etc.
- Have you done any kino escalation on her (touched or on the arm, her hair etc) If yes, and she touched you back somewhere, thats definately an IOI (indication of interest) and might mean that she might be willing to go to the next level with you.

One thing though: If you are going with the honesty thing. make sure that she is REALLY comfortable with you, cause if she isnt, she will probably feel really weird that this guy she just met is showing her this much of his feelings etc..

shes id say a 7 with a 10 body (imo) not a bitch and seems into me. i just dont want to come off awkwardly too strong, or should i come off strong, mabey im the one who just feels awkward because i dont usually come off strong. i sent her a text saying i feel cursed by her ringtone bc iv hurd it about 10 times in one day. i got a laugh from that. i want to chill alone with her but not sure how to suggest that.

Just tease her lightly. Hang out with them more. Be the man orginize the hangout nights and what you guys do. Just lead the girls and they will follow. You won't fall inot the friend zone if you are dominat and leading.

i say next time you hangout do some research, really look out for IOIs, and note when you get them, also speak to yr gay friend and find out what the deal is with the target and blokes, if you get IOIs and your mate says the game is on, then maybe be honest with her... this way you will save embarrasment....
just my input, good luck anyway....
Josh

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