I was just out in Edinburgh with my ex. We dated (and lived together) for two years.

For all those of you who started the game because of a break up, life without an ex is really hard. I am lying in bed next to my ex as she lays sleeping, to be ready for work tomorrow at 8am. I was out with her to catch up and still be friends.

The break up 'the one' never gets easier. As I look at her sleeping, I just want to hug her and make everything alright. This is so hard. I started the game two weeks ago and have received 4 numbers from strangers while sarging. But I still feel empty. The love you find with a girl can be almost unconquerable.

I want everyone who is at the same stage as I am to realize that finding love is about 'Inner Game.' I can't be with me ex because I am not the man I used to be. This will be strange for most PUA's because it is mostly about quick fixes. But for the romantics out there, just become the best you can be. I know that I can find a new love, but I have realized that I must have something to offer them beyond routines and magic tricks.

For those who have lost love, focus and reflect on the good times. These will be your insight into what is needed to attract a new love.

Kid_Justice