I've posted about this before but I really feel that sarging online does me absolutely no good and that I should just stop trying to sarge online altogether if I want to retain any self-confidence/self-esteem at all. No matter what I do, what I say or try, I get blown off. I'm not ugly at all. In fact, I get told I'm cute just about every day and I do fine in the field so it's really baffling. The way I see it; there are some guys who just kick ass online and just rock. They have it. Then there are guys like me who just don't. I think sarging in general is like this.

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It might not neccersarily be the messages you send, it could have something to do with your profile. Post up your myspace/facebook/whatever profile link so some of the experienced online guys can take a look at it. I remember seeing a video somewhere and the guy was explaining how something as simple as just your profile picture can have a massive impact on how many responses you get.

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Yeah, the profile pic thing is a biggy.

I noticed a lot more "Yes" votes on my Are you interested profile when I changed it to a clear picture. Just ask various friends which is the best, or experiment.

And hey... at least with online game you don't have the true rejection. There are millions more out there for you, so don't worry!

Online is not for everyone out there.

The picture is import, but so is what you say in your profile and how you say it.
Rejection is rejection, it does not matter if its online or in real life.

IMO, regardless of where you try to sarge and game women it is all the same to me. In fact you can begin to develop your personality and your frame. Obviously it must be congruent with who you are, but if you are getting blown out online than you truly need to analyze what you need to improve.

I imagine that online may not be for anyone. However, this is where you can begin to develop thick skin and come to the realization that it is all a numbers game as well. Not every attractive woman may be into you nor will all be attracted to you. Yet, you still keep barreling through because you will meet one that will love you and your personality. 80/20 Rule (Pareto's Law)8 out of 10 girls will likely blow you out or be too busy to talk to you.. With each "no" you are one step closer to a yes.... which is your classic mentality for anyone in sales. It all relates. We are selling ourselves.

At the moment I have 4 women I met online in my circle. One is "falling in love" with me and she has yet to meet me, though she is coming over tomorrow. 2 want to marry me already. And the fourth is just a party girl. I am a divorced single father that has a full time job in the retail industry and also working on several business ideas, so going out clubbing and to bars is not something I have much time for.

In fact I decided that I would work on my business and the women will come later. However I do need the company of a woman. So online sarging is my method to get some quality women in my life.

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