I started off on David DeAngelo, who is big on making girls laugh in order to create the right type of attraction.

But as I interact with women, I realize that a lot of times, the most success I had came not from being a quasi-comedian, but from creating tension through frustration. A lot of times it's purely by accident.... I'll be in a rather bad mood, especially toward the opposite gender, and I'll take some of that out through my cynical words toward a female, who will rush to "defend" herself, and afterward I'll be apathetic toward her defenses and find something else wrong with her. Make sense?

It creates a lot of sexual tension when you frustrate a woman. And I'm not saying I'm abusive, just very unfriendly in my conversation. The next thing I know, she's interested in me.

And not once did I make her laugh during the process. At least not during the attraction stage.

You have to remember there's not a set way of doing this. One style can differ from the next, so you gotta pick a style that's right for you. Some people need to follow a style, some people use a lot more original stuff, or maybe a mix of styles. If you aren't a funny person, obviously don't try to be funny. If this style works for you, that's awesome, maybe it'll help other people with similar personalities.

I dunno just rambling a little. But yeah, stick to the style that works for you.

I like this style i think i might try it out

It's a way of making your target qualify and invest in you. The more you devalue her, the more she tries to raise that value by qualifying herself. At the same time she sees/feels her value relative to yours, and since she's too busy defending herself your value stays the same while hers plummets which makes you high value in the interaction. Basically neg theory taken to the extreme.

The more she qualifies the more invested she is. She's pouring her heart out to someone who's basically being an ass to her and she can't feel but be attracted. This works really well on girls with low self esteem and those with emotional problems...which is like 50% of all hot chicks. Thus you see the jerks and assholes scoring mega hotties while the nice guys get LJBF'd or ignored. It's not confidence, it's perception and stupidity.

God sure wired women funny.

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Laughter is not necessary. I prefer being funny during a sarge because I enjoy laughter and it gives me calibration for how well I am doing and where to go from then on...

But sure. I have also made a number of closes without any laughter at all.

i think that laughter helps. but isn't cast in stone... just as there are serious people in this world... however, you guys must somehow be able to have fun together. and laughter brings out those feel good emotions.

if she laughs and feels good around you, then when you're not around, and she's not laughing, chances are she'll miss it. she'll probably see a direct correlation to her laughing and having a good time, and you being there... and that's always good. cos she'll want you around more often

My game is pure laughter ! My stomach hurt from laughing after my last weekend... Which was pure kickass!

It creates you a sixpack too.

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