Okay, so I'll honestly admit that I am still an AFC with budding potential. Today, after school I went to starbucks. While there I saw two girls one HB7.5 with a nose piercing and one best friend (she wasn't as hot as the 7.5 that's all I remember). I was on my own but had a plan to use my cell phone to lead into a perturbed jealous girlfriend opener. I was standing next to them while I waited for my drink alongside them and waited for them to find a table outside. I got my drink and hesitated only for a moment to sit outside a few tables away. All of a sudden I glanced up and was gripped once again by the unamable fear and walked away to my car. I first tried to blame it on my lack of a wing but soon took a look at myself. I was so angry at myself but realized as I went through the parking lot that my only real mistake was hesitation. In "The Game" it mentions the 2 second rule in which you must decide within 2 seconds of seeing a HB that you want to sleep with her. And, I hesitated just for a moment but it was long enough. I realized my flaw and contemplated going back but, I was sure that they'd at least noticed me and would know something was up. So I learned a couple things today.

1. The 2 second rule is right

2. Leave mistakes behind. Don't try to make up for them! Just keep improving your game for the future.

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All the world is a stage, but the play is badly cast!
-Oscar Wilde

its a 3 sec rule not 2 but almost same thing and yea same thing happens 2 me i have the perfect thing 2 say/do and i make excuses to my self and that night i shawn apon my self for not doing it so, i'v just been winging it lately and its working out great i'm good at that I did that for a test and did better then i usually do but i'm not gonna risk it again haha, but yea the 3 sec rule one of the best pua tips out there i find

yeah, for a long time I didn't think a wing was really that necessary but when you're just starting out like I am it's hard to push yourself on your own. Oh, well I guess aknowledging that the only thing stopping me was me is a step forward. Right? Hopefully...

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All the world is a stage, but the play is badly cast!
-Oscar Wilde

First of all, read my post here:

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Second, it has nothing to do with 3 seconds or 2 years. The problem is that you're focusing on pussy instead of focusing on your game. The olympic boxer's goal is to win the gold medal but when he steps up to compete, he only goes through the routines of his game. He goes through his motions, his opponent, strategy, the jabs . . . then when the bell rings, he doesn't even think about these things any more. Now it's all automatic. Why is it automatic? Because he's practiced for years and years.

You're walking right into the fight without practice, without a set strategy, without practice . . and you're thinking about pussy for 3 seconds. That's 3 seconds too long. How would you feel if somebody tossed you in the ring with an Olympic boxer and told you, "Go get em!"?? Yet, this is exactly what you're doing to yourself.

Read the link above. Think about it.

It's not that I'm not focused on the game. When I say decide that you will sleep with x in a matter of seconds it's like saying "I'm going to win the gold medal!" I don't litterally mean focus on the end rather than the journey I was just trying to make a point even if nothing happens between you and your target this is an important rule to follow.

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All the world is a stage, but the play is badly cast!
-Oscar Wilde

No no it's not. Ask yourself: What is the difference of 3 seconds of contemplating the encounter with an hb10 vs. 3 seconds of contemplating the encounter with your friend's grandmother?

The difference, whether you like it or not, regardless of whether you think about it actively or not, you're hormones are firing up like the 4th of July when you hesitate with the hb10. This is the monumental difference. It's because these hormones are rampant without any active input from you that it's so important that you actively concentrate on the logistics of the game.

If you don't think you have the capability to practice and focus on the game, then, yeah, I suppose you should pounce on the first set that strikes your fancy. Let us know how that works for you . . .

The 3 second thing . . . yeah, it exists but it's nearly insignificant in the big scope of things . . .