Im glad I read your post because you're going wrong since just about the beginning
First of all I stronly recommend that you read this post
the-way-to-dhv-vt3772.html?highlight=dhv
Second of all, dont EVER tell again the story of ga guys hitting on you, that's just LAME, sorryy if it hurts, but take it like a man
Now, to my post above, it basically says this:
You dont DHV by showing off straight-out, you DHV in a subtle (smooth way)
Examples:
* You don't say you danced with three amazing hot brazilian dancers
Instead, You start dancing like an amazing dancer
or you REALLY work on how to tell a story, this includes "VOICE TONALITY AND BODY LANGUAJE"
* You don't tell her that you like to be a leader
Instead, you SOCIAL PROOF her, grab a group of guys, who look Decent enough (body languaje, looks and what not), and talk to them in a group, and make them LISTEN AND PAY ATTENTION to you, being the center in a cool group makes you a cool leader... being the center of attention in a group of losers, just makes you the kIng of Losers
* You don't tell her that you're outgoing and like to travel
Instead, you DESCRIBE (Key word) your trips and adventures,
The key to DESCRIBE is to do tell the story with a PASSION and with many many details.
And so on
I could give thousands of them
And I hope you get the idea