I have a gf and i kissed another girl. One of my friends has found out and this information is likely to spread around my social group. Is there anyway i can come out of this without looking like a total player?? and possibly continue my relationship?? or should i just move on??

basically how should i play off these rumours?? deny or honesty.

I think it depends on how serious you are in this relationship? I had a girlfriend for 2 years and it was dishonesty that ended it. A relationship will never work without truth. So you need to workout how much you want it?
But if you tell her the truth at least you wont seem like a total lying bastard, and maybe you will be able to justify it?

Women are better liars than men, they also know when a guy is bs'ing them. If you're serious about your GF then I would tell her before she hears about it from someone else. You can tell her in whatever details you want to, but you'll be telling her. Also, if you wait for her to hear it from someone else then you don't know what somebody else will say. Hell, you know how rumors get bigger the more they're told. By the time the grapevine truth gets to your GF it'll be something like "Your BF practically raped this girl in public", or something as bad. Don't wait for the smoke to turn into a blazing inferno. Right now you can stamp it out, wait any longer and it may be a wildfire that's out of control. You obviously care for her, otherwise you wouldn't be asking for help. Show her you care telling her and admit that you made a stupid mistake rather than let her find out you have a secret. Jus' my 2 cents.

I agree with sagitta_69, better tell her yourself and be honest... Good chances she'll forgive you.

Then you'll have to earn her trust back...

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Welcome to a PUA forum. If your reading pickup material, stuff like this happens. Just a question....Would you like to keep this girl or keep your choice of HB's? I'd say, well, you did kiss another girl. But she came onto you. And if this friend does spread it....I doubt he's much of a comrade. Good luck pickupguy!

Be honest. It's better if she hears it from you before anyone else, but don't go over the top with some long winded apology. Tell her you made a mistake, you won't do it again and if she wants to keep seeing you then it's up to her.

Its all up to you man. How bad do you want this girl?
Why did you kiss the other girl? Is it a sign that you are looking for something else or that you are a bad person? Maybe you wanna have more than one girl, nothing wrong with that.
Are your friends gonna expose you? Why dont you talk to them?

If your GF asks. Admit!

eish... greedy ne?

lol... yeah man, own up if you wanna keep her around, alternatively... if you're like me.... ask yourself how well she'd keep this a secret... if she knew you and her friend were going out before it happened...

Depends in what context the kiss was and what type of kiss. A peck on the check I doubt most girls will get pissed over. A make out session on the other hand, I think most girls will get mad over. Also how serious is this relationship?