Until now i have been using only canned openers and they have been working fine so far, but i decided i need to make my own, this way i will be more passionate about it, and it will relate to me more.
I want to orientate it around something that happened to me recently. One of my best mates started making moves on my ex who i was with for 2 years. He started doing this like a week after we broke up. I was thinking of one of the following ideas:
ME: Hey guys, could i get your opinion on something real quick? (throw in a time constraint).
HB: Yeh sure, fire away
ME Would you date your best friends ex?

or

Me: Would you date your ex's Best friend?

Then when they respond give my opinion, how wouldnt trust them etc etc

What do you think?
cheers Gent

well... its like its same opener..

Yeh i know, im just saying, what do you think? would a girl be put off if i told them i was just out of a LTR? I thought it would be pretty cool and i could then go on to explain the story, explaining how i think trust is important etc. this would then be a dhv also. any input would be appreciated?

Them openers would be a great thing for you because its apart of your life,use them for your own good..



Why would she get alarmed? Seriously if you give the time constraint and make them think your just asking there opinion they have no reason to be put off..As your finishing the conversation stack to another routine but make it look like your leaving"rocking" then if you have built enough of a want they will keep you from leaving.Them openers are very good DHV for you man...

Thanks dude, i will give it a try next time im out and let you all know how it goes!