Hey guys, sorry for posting in here, but I'm still working towards that majic 30 # so I can post in the other forums...

Anyways, I wanted to get your oppinion on something...Im wondering if you all think this is a total AFC move, or a good practice to repeat...

At a bar last Sat night, I was checkin out this HB from across the room. I didn't stare or anything like that, but I noticed her look at me, or at least thats what I thought...You know how sometimes its hard to be sure from across the room what she's really looking at if she simply glances in your direction...

So the next time she looked over at me, I looked her in the eye, and without even thinking, just threw up my hand and gave her a little wave....she waved back, so I knew that all I had to do from that point on was just walk up and say hi...the rest of the night went real well with her...# closed...talked to her a few times since that night...

Anyways, does that seem too 5th grade to you all? The way I was thinking, was that it seems to be a fool proof way to know if she has some degree of interest..I must say also, once I got the wave, AA was gone immediately, and I just walked up, calm and natural as could be....

What you think?

I really think that it doesn't matter a horse crap .

But what I would do after waving, point at her and then point at your feet. It means come over here.

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that's backfired a few times for me though. You need to build attraction before you can make her jump hoops.

Nah, you don't need attraction for that. Its all in your delivery/body language. To get away with the pointing at your feet you have to have a distinct air of confidence. Which being new can be difficult to present.

An easy way to do it is smile, and if she returns your smile wave her over. Make sure to have a relaxed body posture. Leaning backwards or on something. Also, don't have your hips/shoulders directed at her. This conveys to much neediness. Offcourse, also at all times have your smile