I have been sitting next to this girl in class a few times. Im a college student and she and i have hit it off. So i made a big mistake, kind of. basically yesterday in class she was hung over and didn't feel well, she mentioned taking a nyquil and passing out. but for some odd reason i thought it would be a good time to ask her out on a date. she said yeah and we walked out of class together and she repeated the thing about the nyquil. at this point i should have said o well we can chill another time. but instead i said "ill call you in a bit" about 2 hours later she texted me saying im going to nap ill have to raincheck on dinner.

so im afraid that I kind of fucked this up. Do i apologize or what? When should i ask her out again? should i avoid her in class? how many days should i wait before contacting her again?

is it time for damage control?

wats nyquil?
Thts quite an odd situation.. Say u made a mistake "shit i just realised u were well ill the other day" ask when she's goign to be good to go. I think this is one of those u had to be theres..

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Lol, dude your thinking to far into it. Yes, it wasn't the smartest idea in the world, but there no love lost at this point. Just chat her up in class the next day and ask her out again. Except, when you do ask her to go out on a specific day. So, then if she says not that day she already committing to it and will give you a different day.

Don't take her out for dinner for the first get together man.

I agree with the lat 2 posts. 1st you didnt do anythign to bad for all you know it may have been a flake.. Shit i woud have been like awww are you feelin better how about i swing by with chicken noodle soup or tea... turn that into a romantic night in AKA Fclose. You can turn any situaton around that is one thing i have learned from all the helpful PUA's on this site. 2nd never dinner date on first date waste of time and money too much to time to talk... She is in college ask her out for beers spit game and Fclose or if its a school night coffee with a time constraint cause your meeting up with a friend. then play the pronoun game and elt it semi slip the friend is a girl. this will build value and a bit of tension for you to want your attention. Anywaythats the best i can offer...!

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Bullets in Binary

open her no matter who she is, regret is a worst word then failure...

i agree with binary, bring her something to help with he sickness, then you become the knight in shinin armor, haha girls love when you pamper them, and soup is cheap and works charms, then you f-close

yeah first date, do something fun and social, where you can also isolate, if its just you and her then there is way too much tension cause your forced to be with that person for a set time, in a social SPAM, it shows your alpha and you can always isolate/ditch and return