I'm going to open a girl after class tomorrow(we've made some eye contact, and I've come to the conclusion that she's shy so I'm just gonna go for it). I'm trying to think of a good opener that sets me apart but isn't cheesy.


No PUA openers, regardless of this being a PUA forum This is high school btw

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I'd personally use a situational opener followed with an observation. Something like "Boy that teacher really knows how to put a guy to sleep! I'm not sure I'm really getting any of this. Lol you're nose crinkles when you laugh that's adorable!" Or something like that.

That being said you are putting way too much thought into the opener. HS game is all about DHVs. Just keep an alpha frame and do something that makes you belong to a desirable group that interests her (sports, music, whatever) you will be golden.

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Rexlexia is right!
If u are seen as a high value person, if u act & feel high value then you will be. And if u are, then anything, any opener will do.
Two nights ago I saw a girl that was once in my french class, I said "You go to my school right? I think we were in the same french class last year" If u believe that rejection is not an option, it isn't no matter how simple or boring the opener is!

but for an opener, this is my suggestion:
Next time u see her & make eye contact with her, smile & laugh a lil bit. She should react the same way. It's like when u laugh just because others are laughing but u didnt really understand what was funny. during eye contact you're both alone in ur world so she has to react! She'll smile for sure and then you just ask her "how you doing?" and follow into a conversation, or not. In any case, next time you see her, you'll be set up to be able to talk to her without any problems!

"Hi" then talk about something. That's a REAL opener.

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