Hey guys

i arranged a date for the weekend. however the girl only has time during the day, because in the evening she doesnt know how to go home. she lives far away.

So, my question now is, where should i take her?

should we go to the cinema? to a cafe? to a cafe and afterwards to the cinema? or after the movie we could eat pizza 2getha..??

and another question is, should i pay for her the pizza, the entrance in the cinema or some drinks in a cafe?

because i think that day could become very expensive

thanks 4 ur advice

Stringerbell

alright if your gonna want to do a cinema do it after you get to know her first cause then you could get a little closer with the lights off, read her body language and see what she is feelin then yeah, i would start with a pizza joint or cafe then cinema for that reason

also, payin for her, i would say to her "ill let you treat me to the movies if you let me treat you to pizza" something along those lines where you pay for one and she pays for the other

good luck, def update us

i already know her because weve chatted a lot via MSN and shes on my school, therefore is see and speak almost with her daily

r u sayin that i should take her to the cinema?

mmmh im so excited

I say where to take a girl is personal preference. Me, I have always been in to ghost hunting, after I learned about PUA I realized ghost hunting is the perfect place to take a girl.
1) Its FREE!
2) She will be all over you
3) You will be the alpha (if your not a wimp haha)
Plus its a good opportunity to tell some DHV stories, and ofcourse you get some kino out of it.
If theres no haunted places near your house, you can just go to any isolated place and say its haunted hah.

I agree with that lines, its nice.a dn saves u money. Ok assuming u ahvnt already gone on this date, i wouldnt go to the cinima! its quite week( quite possibly afc) Also dont jsut go to dinner because then talking is the main focus. Umm things i would say for the date in easy bullet points

1. Go to different places for a range of emotions..
2. Im sure u know but touch her strait away, KINO
3. Go on the date when u will be in your best state and u have good energy.
4. Only go to the cinima if u know you will ahve developed lots of kino by then already.
5. walks, frisby ect are good for the day and shopping lol and if possible go somewhere people know u (not your bloody local bar though)
yeh theres ltos more but see how it goes good luck.. any more questions for us, oh and i hope tht helps.

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I agree with that lines, its nice.a dn saves u money. Ok assuming u ahvnt already gone on this date, i wouldnt go to the cinima! its quite week( quite possibly afc) Also dont jsut go to dinner because then talking is the main focus. Umm things i would say for the date in easy bullet points

1. Go to different places for a range of emotions..
2. Im sure u know but touch her strait away, KINO
3. Go on the date when u will be in your best state and u have good energy.
4. Only go to the cinima if u know you will ahve developed lots of kino by then already.
5. walks, frisby ect are good for the day and shopping lol and if possible go somewhere people know u (not your bloody local bar though)
yeh theres ltos more but see how it goes good luck.. any more questions for us, oh and i hope tht helps.

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oxford city uk. looking for local contacts. pm me

Don't go to the movies! Terrible first date. Go lazer tagging or putt putt. Something fun. (putt putt is great for kino). Also don't have a sit down meal. Go to something quick like pizza or fast food. Dinner and a movie is cliche'.

Do something fun and entertaining.

Oh would u all stop knocking movie dates!! Read chief's post on them if u think they are bad.
Right, shuup and listen
1)Meet at a coffee shop (or whatever you drink) and get a drink, quick chat. DO NOT LINGER. About 20mins is a good time. It reminds her why she is with u and gets her comfortable.
2) Walk to the shops, walk close to her (not tripping over eachother) and just general chit chat. Walk with direction, dont wonder, you are going somewhere. No speed walking, just a steady pace as if you are going somehwere. and that somehwere is:
3) the shops! Dont need many, just a few. Walk around, dont be afriad to walk off around the shop on ur own. Your not her tail. Stay within sight tho if possible and definatly stay within calling distance. That way it shows u are with her, but not crowding her.
4) once you have done some shopping and hopfully your comfortable with eachother and have some kino. Its time to go to the movie. Use the above line for the paying.
5) watch movie... get close, cuddle. A kiss is fine in the end credits but no serious make outs. Restrain yourself.
6) Say bye or go somewhere alone.

Madals

Yeah, movie dates can be OK. They're not good for making conversation of course, but you can mess around like crazy the whole time and have tons of fun. Throw some popcorn at her and deny all knowledge of it happening. Take sips from her drink even though yours is full. Poke her. Kick the chair in front of her so the guy in front gets mad at her. Then after the movie you can talk about how kickass/crappy it was and it starts off a really long conversation or you can have fun debates about what you'd do if you were certain characters etc. As for paying for her, fuck no. You wouldn't pay for your friend if he or she had money of their own; she is no different.

it seems to spend a lot of time together..unfortunately we dont have that time

mmmh i really dont know what to do tomorrow

its my first date omg

As long as u have time for the movie, just cut the bits before as short as you need. I wouldnt suggest a movie unless u have time before tho.

how long do u suggest the 1. date should be?

ok its not the 1. date because we see each other in school etc. but its the first time we'd spend some time 2getha besides school

what do u think?

sooo...we'll meet tomorrow at 2:30pm ...

we r going to the cinema and afterwards we will have a drink...she has time till 6pm ..thats why we r going to the cinema so early...

do u think we should order a double seat or seperated seats?

how can i begin to create KINO during the movie?

any tips? (like my arm over her shoulder or sth like that???)

NOOOO drink before the movie! BEFORE!!!!!!!!!!

U have to have time before u go in there, she has to be comfortable with you and visa versa! And double seat

As long as it takes to get in her pants, IMHO.