Alright ill simplify this to get right to the point, I started this new job and there was this smokin hot HB10, def hottest girl in the office by far, spent the first week pretty much freezin her out, i found out she had a bf that works in the same area....haha minor speed bump, well second week at work i started spittin game and we had a work party comin up by the end of the week on friday, i got my first pay check on thurs and had a huge night out and ended up comin in to work hung over as hell, so was not in my game but she took it as a freeze out, haha and she kept comin round all day, i told her i didnt feel like going to the work party and she spent about 30 min beggin me to come to the party, i agreed by sayin "alright ill go but not stayin long and if its lame, you owe me dinner on sat night" I woke up a bit at the party and started spittin game again, long story short, we ended up in the back going "lets go somewhere quiet"....back to my place and f-close, lol too easy, she was naked playin with herself when i came back in my room, haha, gotta love it

alright here is the scenerio, she made a move on me at the party and the whole office pretty much saw it and apparently there is photo evidence...well monday came around and she has been actin weird all week so i pretty much freeze her out again, with the occasional hi, apparently she didnt fully break up with her bf, haha

here's our conversation on thurs

clutch: hey so i have to say i feel weird tension between us and you have been actin strange, is there something i should know

an hour later

HB10: hey, umm im sorry, i guess ive just never been in this situation before, im really confused, i dont mean to make things weird and awkward, i just dont know how to act around you anymore, im sorry

clutch: act the same as you always did, i am, i dont see you any dif, at least not in a bad way, i dont like the awkardness, are you still with that dude, no worries to me, was a fun night and nice to get to know you a bit more even though your a wow fan, but stop makin things weird

HB10: lol im sorry clutch, i reall am, i try, i just feel like any time we speak people are going to be lookin at us.. and talkin.. but yeah i guess im just paranoid.. but yeah, i had a great night...your a great guy, but yeah i guess ill see you tom, go to sleep, haha xx

clutch: silly girl you knwo im not gonna sleep for a while, lol dont be sorry, just stop bein weird k, i like how you ignored my question

HB10: lol sorry..thought you wouldnt notice, haha, well nah we are just friends..tryin to be. hes makin it hard...but yeah would like to keep what happened just between us

clutch: haha you cant pull a fast one on me, im not gonna be the complication dont worry bout me, glad this is out now, wasnt that hard

HB10: lol yeah..im sorry i dragged you into my complicated story...eh and no, your the dork! hehe goodnight xx

clutch: ill let you make it up to me, you still owe me a beer, ill pencil you in on sunday, night

i did plenty of push/pull, we spent all friday night smashin and talkin, thats where a couple inside jokes come from, no biggie


Main question now......where to go with this, I already f-closed, I dont want her as a LTR, just as a few fun nights

Suggestions would be appreciated!!!! How to deal with the apparent ex....well monday we move offices and he won't be around so that could be a good thing!!

nice job first of all? lol and I think you did a lot of good things! pull and push worked perfectly.

now what? In my opinion I would be straight with her; in a tactful way of course. I think just acting like you've always been acting is the way to go. If she starts getting too serious, or starts talking about a relationship, just be honest, let her know she is awesome but you have other goals in life, and that you will be open for cuddling when she behaves well.

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It doesn't seem like she wants anything from you.

I think your next move is to fuck her on your desk after a "late night" at work. :lol:

Seriously though, just get her outside of work again, talk it out in person, then go back to your place. I don't think it would be awkward if whole office didn't already know that there was something between you two. Keep it on the DL.

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haha yeah, thanks for the replies guys

well im sure she is into me cause she keeps tellin me that she is confused as to what to do or think, and her friend there keeps droppin hints as to questions that she should be asking me, so i think she is usin her friend as a medium, no worries on that cause her friend and i are pretty solid so that could work both ways

im tryin to turn this into an office thing but wouldnt mind a weekend warrior, i think it would be pretty sick to smash her during one of our breaks or something, haha

what should i do this weekend, should i wait for a reply from her or take the initiative and set something up??

either way monday should be interesting cause we are in a different place of the buildin where the other "distraction (ex)" wont be around, you know out of sight out of mind, haha

to throw another spin in it, im an american traveler in aussie, so she doesnt know how long im gonna be in country for, i said at least 6 months....psh, but yeah i dont know if thats a good or bad thing

thanks for the feedback guys