Well I use to be a natural i could get women when i wanted, but since i have been helping people i have recently got back into the game and have found myself doing stupid mistakes...your gonna laugh your ass off when i tell you what happen the other day...

Well had my friend next to me a girl i mind you, and this was welcome week at my college well anyways there was a booth with 2 girls sitting there and a guy who was talking to them, my friend knows i help people and the methods we all use to get women she is cool with it we been hanging out forever, and sometimes a little more then what you would call friends lol.. Shit! we do anything a couple does we just arent dating and she damn well knows and understands that i dont wanna date and will do damn well as i please if that be bang another chick...that was the game i use to have, you can call it friends with benefits i guess, we joke around i poke fun at her all the time but i guess once you get to know a person over the years or months it gets easier and easier cause your familiar with one another but on to the question and ill stop talking like a politician avoiding the topica at hand......

Told my friend come with me, we got there i didnt say much for 2 mins and just started talking a bit, talked to the better looking girl kind of ignored her friend, and get this didnt use an opinion on them like who lies more, or should you break up using a text...i thought bout it but didnt do it....i never built off her questions really and i never even asked what she is going for i got one or two ball busting comments in there but im sure they just came off as being an asshole cause i dont think i was in the frame of mind to do it. my voice tone sucked i believe and my energy leven was a 6 if say a 8 was the level you need to be at....

I fucked up in every possible way i even messed up before i approached.....I BROUGHT MY FRIEND WITH ME WHO IS A GIRL...what the hell r u thinking i should of slapped myself of course those girls are thinking what the hell is he doign talking to me when his g.f if right there even though we arent dating im sure thats wat they thought.....


I believe i have finally found out what to do though and maybe have found the right track, I believe i am trying to HARD wayyyy to HARD on the joke aspect and expecting or wanting eveythign i say to come out like a professinal comedian...instead i believe i just need to relax hold the eye contact, seem confident, energetic, just have the conversation flow and build off what she says and make fun of her on occasion if it comes to you naturally you dont need to be cracking a joke every sentence nor every 5 sentences, just as long as you seem interesting and a somewhat of a fun person who isnt like every guy talking about himself....


well i need some feed back like right now....cause this is pissing me off i go from hey! whats up conversation to......draw a blank say somethign and fuck up......

................................advice??????

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How You Approach Is A Matter Of How You Feel "mPUA Savior"

You Live What You've Learned

You know what to do, knowbody can teach you how to hold a conversation. Just be confident and don't approach with girl with you

yeah, well I don't think there was a problem with you bringing your friend there. But you should have taken it easy, just be yourself... I also think, that you were thinking too hard. "should I say this? or not?" bah, don't over think things and go with the flow. If I was in your position, I woulda make comments like "this is bad for my reputation, I'm going to look like a pimp with 3 girls all over me, please step at least 5 meters away, just make sure to talk loudly" or "I hope you all three don't gang bang me here, pretty scary 3-1" or w/e flows your mind.

I would of engage in a conversation with the ugly one instead of the pretty one, and would make my friend more engaged into the conversation, and then from time to time, let the hotty talk, but interrupt her when she starts speaking.

but again, this is your mind adjusting and going with the flow in seconds, so w/e if you don't do things perfectly, as long as you are in control of your emotions and your character you'll be ok.