There is this girl in my school. We're chatting for some weeks now on msn and we're having fun and so on. But the thing is, i dont think she's really interested in me...Because I asked her if she wants to go watch a movie in the cinema with me, she said she hasnt got no money at the moment and we got lots of exams these weeks. I offered her to pay for her ticket but she denied. "But we could go after all the exams "(in about 2 weeks...). For me, it sounds like a "never"! The weird thing is: she also gives me IOI's sometimes. But in msn I always have to start the conversation and she's mostly answering in short answers.I dont understand this girl, I dont know what I should do now and how my chances are to get a kiss close in the cinema.
At school its almost impossible to talk to her because shes always with her friends...

Thank you for your help
Peace

Wow, ok. Firstly: offering to pay for her ticket? Not good. When she said she didn't have any money, you should have said something like "Alright, your loss."
She gives you IOIs because she likes the attention she gets back from you. Move on, maybe come back when your game is stronger.
But you never know, Romeo7 might be able to give you better advice.

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If she's only giving you short answer's then you're not engaging her enough. It also mean that it feels more like an interrogation then a conversation for her which probably isn't that much fun. I found this one the other night when looking up conversational skills.

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KingJocker;

I think you have good intentions with this girl, you might like her, but here is the deal, your behaving like a complete AFC , your not being the challenge your like the guy that is all over her.

You always say hi when she goes online in MSN you have asked out and you have offered to buy her tickets, you get the point?

Your being too easy.

Next time don't say Hi to her in msn , wait for her to say hi , if she doesn't do it wait three more days , if she doesn't say hi then you say hi and you play C&F you say something like , hey long time, I bet you missed me.

And start talking about other stuff, avoid the classic msn chats, like how you doing, whats up, are you going out tonight.

Talk about how you went on a date a few weeks ago to Six Flags and you were having so much fun and then it start raining and you had to go home but your rent a movie and it was really cool, but then she moved out to another state. Whatever just avoid normal topics.

And another important thing, maybe it is too late the girl sees you as a friend so the only way you can revert that is going out establish kino and by establishing yourself as a potential mate.

"You have to be willing to lose that girl, to actually win the girl."

If she sees that she has won you over your not the challenge and you just lost the mystery and the funny thing you had. -> Cat String Theory

Succes, XF

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i completely agree with xfman on this. but if you are too afraid to go talk to her with her friends around then you are goin down. at school when she is with friends think of it as a set in a club. open it, then throw a neg, then start a routine. its that easy man its basic. get in good with her friends and she will start to see your sociable value and then she will start to get attracted. and when you build attraction, you will start to see her on msn talkin to you and tryin to win you over. just act like its a normal set and she is the tartget. i hope your not in the LJBF zone, cuz then this won't work. so goodluck.

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