About a week ago i went direct on a russian HB8 in topshop during day time . I didnt call her until a week later. I call her she didnt know who it was so I teased her telling her that she must give her number out to every guy she meets then the phone cut off.

So i called agian and hit voice mail. I left a voice mail and told her to callme back. She never called so an hour later i sms'd her a text

"Hey callme back or I will have to punish you next time I see you at topshop"

She replied back "I dont feel like chatting right now do you live in topshop "

Half an hour later I replied with "i buy all my sexy underwear from there and u ?"

She replied back straight away..

"No i was just wandering around sorry its not really good of me to give my number if i dont mean anything under it"

What does she mean by this in the last SMS ?

How would you respond ?

Thanks,

Kev

I dont think you ever hit a hook point.

a test?

tell her: hey, don't get the ahead of yourself... I just want to be friends, don't think is that easy.

see what she says. Most women are open for friendship anyday of the week. Tell her you are friends, but flirt with her like no other.

What do you mean by hook point ?

Whenever I chat with a girl i always try and have something which i can use again.

For example, this one girl was telling me how she had trouble meeting people. I said as long as you dont pick your nose you should not have any trouble. I call her nose picker.

Sometimes I tell a girl that I am going to rob a bank and could give her 3 % for being my get away driver. So i would use " rob any banks lately" as an opener so she would know exactly who I am.

Or when you are talking to a girl you could say something like " you seem like the type that makes aaaamazing cookies, are yours any good." then whe n you call her back you can say hey missy, are my cookies ready.

just some ideas.

Sounds like you're trying too hard for her; remember - you are the prize...
You did good when you asked "Do you give your number out to every guy you meet?" but you asking her to call is going to put her off.
This one - I'm sorry to say sounds like a lost cause...
(In my opinion)
Next time - either make more of an impression on her or call her a bit sooner...

What routine you use, then?

Just pointing out the obvious in answer to your question; you said she was Russian?
Her English may not be too good what she probably meant was:
"No i was just wandering around I shouldn't have given you my number I didn't mean anything by it..."

Guys,

I replied back with "Hey chill girl you struke me as having a warm friendly attitude which is rare in such a big city now why cant everyone be like you "

She replied back "Thankyou sleep well tonight "

Do you think its back on again ?

The routine I used when i first met her is "I saw you and i just had to come and meet you then I threw some rapport in for nearly 30 mins"

She ended the conversation right away. Lets say that you rewarded her for her bad behaviour.

Or she was just too busy to text with you at the moment.

Either way, no. Its not "back on" again.
Don't chat with the girl so bloody long! Getting a number should take only around like 5 minutes.

Let her imagination fill in the rest of you and do the job for you, when she doesn't know you well enough yet.

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Yep.

She's not bothering to converse with you, she just answers out of politeness, but doesn't say anything back to continue talking, so I'd say she isn't interested. I think it's done, but if you think you still have a chance, then wait a few days and give a call, stop the texting and after fluffing for a bit, set up a day 3, otherwise it's just never gonna go anywhere this way.

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Your right shes an attention whore thanks man all these russian bitches are all the same they want attention and give there numbers out then they say fuck off i will neg her hard next time and reward her if i meet a russian bitch again thanks

Try not reacting so poorly when you get bad results due to your own mistakes. It isn't her fault that she lost interest, it's yours for not contacting her soon enough and keeping her emotionally involved. If you keep on blaming other people for your mistakes, then you'll never learn anything and you're not gonna get any better.

And no, I'm not being an asshole, I'm telling you like it is, because I take responsibility for when a girl isn't attracted and I don't blame her, I blame myself for not being successful. That's just what we call a learning experience though, nothing to get upset over, just something to learn from and improve on next time around.

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Insomnia's a bitch. Russian chicks on the other hand tend to vary. The only thing all of your failed sarges have in common is you.

Rejection sucks but you must accept and learn from it. By placing the blame on the girls, you are holding yourself back. Obviously with all the problems you have there is an area of your game and your personality that needs serious work. Perhaps you should do a training camp with one of the many distinguished PUA trainers on this site.

Edit: Dammit Rye you beat me by 2 minutes on the post. I bet you used your Mod powers to show me up once again.

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Sorry Rye you are right I understand it was my fault. I will try and call her again anyway and run some attraction game on the phone and if it fails then i will reject her.

What attraction routines do u suggest to run on her ?

Thanks,

Kev