When i first read the title this is what i thought.

hb: i dont like sex

'great, i dont like sex either'

This makes the whole thing less awkward and its like putting yourself on her level, so when you do get around to having sex, your just two people having sex who dont like sex, like two virgins.
Dont have sex, make love.

This is where you start deciding weather you really want to have a relationship with this girl, is she worth it, or you dont wanna waste your time on a girl like this and just move on.

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What is your "Shifting" routine?

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A good drop-out for awkward exchanges is to give the "semi-wink" look. One eyebrow raised, and nod your head.. it's like hinting there's sexual innuendo in her statement without saying so.

Serious answer: maybe she's lesbian?

A few people here have mentioned the possibility of sexual abuse or other trauma. I think it's very important to consider this possibility.

I recently exited a somewhat sexless relationship with a girl who had been sexually abused as a preteen. It has left her with some pretty serious emotional issues as it relates to sex. It's very hard to deal with this, and it's not something you can "fix" with ease. It is possible you can trick or pressure a girl who has sexual issues into having sex with you, but it's not going to be up there on your all-time great lays list. And you may end up damaging the girl further.

If a girl has traumatic sexual issues, you are going to need an incredible amount of patience. Otherwise, you need to find a girl who is willing to fill your sexual needs instead of pressuring this one.

Remember guys, you are PUAs, not therapists or psychiatrists. And in your quest to get laid, you should remember the code: Leave them better than you found them.

Shes not human. Get the heck outta there dude!

Can't say how much I agree with this.

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I let this chick go a lonnnnggggg time ago, she wasn't worth the chase, not that she was easy butt..... I soon became aware that I was after sex and I wasn't attracted to her with made things ackward but now we work together in we've see each other every morning and were really good friends, and I used her b4 as a wingman and oh men it makes it a lot easier meeting more woman that why. Girls open me up a lot when I hang out with her and her friends.

If she doesn't like sex then obviously it's the fault of her ex for being such a shitty lover. Keep in mind, she doesn't like sex but that doesn't mean she doesn't like making out. Work your way up from there. While she has her clothes on, start kissing her on the neck, ear, chest, etc., and once you've escalated enough move to her pussy. It may not be the first rendezvous, but eventually she'll warm up to the idea. Because realistically, the only ABNORMAL sex life is one where you desire no sex at all. Yes, it's true. I've had people say the same thing to me; that they don't like sex and they say that it's not weird at all, but they're wrong. Flat-out wrong. If you have a pair of balls/ovaries you want sex. A bad past experience may put you off to it, but a sexual trigger will fire the drive up again, no matter what. Aside form the will to survive, wanting sex is nature's most powerful urge.

So the next time someone tells you that they don't like sex, demand to see their missing balls or x-rays of their absent ovaries, and if they cannot provide this, call them a damn liar.

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yeah

Obviously her ex boyfriend was horrible and/or made her do it even though she was uncomfortable.

How old is she?

Unless she really has problems . . and it doesn't really sound like it. It was just a prelim anti slut defense. The opposite of her statement would have been, "Oh I just love sex . . . especially when my boyfriend sticks it deep into me jack hammer style!" This is why the game is so fun! Girls are all so different!

You don't seem to be too into her but a lengthy push pull, (several days worth) driving her into your arms would have been the ultimate routine on this "pretend-to-be cold fish".

No need to insult her b friend or her sexuality or personality or anything. Guys . . . focus! Goals . . . Current situation . . . Strategize . .. execute. It seems some of you are quick to load your weapons to move into the offensive.

Hi , am new here....

this is an interesting topic. had an ex who was exactly like that - she only did it 'to please me'. Every time I went down on her (oral) I could make her climax in seconds.. then i'd go in for the kill and nothing.... I tried everything too, positions, techniques, slow, fast, trust me i read everything about it and ive NEVER had problems with previous girls. She only gave it to me about once a week too, twice if i was lucky!

Everytime I asked what was wrong she said ' i just dont like sex' and then said 'i think i was a lesbian in another life, i only enjoy it when you go down on me'.

She was an impossible one to figure out. - Good luck is all i can say!

+1

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hey DUDE i had a similar situation before, the problem is that she is in the frame that she shouldnt enjoy sex (sex is bad ,sex is for sluts etc.) anyway what i did i simple i asked my girl to enjoy it is said girl i want u to enjoy that u should ,anyway it is just a small tip easy to try just have a good frame when u tell her good luck.