Okay, so I go on Plenty of Fish and this redhead chick says in an email that she really digs my profile, likes how I "tell it like it is", she says "truth hurts but it's worth it to me" etc. (I came across as a cocky-funny DHV in my profile, kind of like Style's myspace)

Then she IM's me and I chat, but the first thing I say is:
"hmmm you keem kinda cool, but I'm curious: is that a wig or your real hair?"

She didn't respond at all. Like for half an hour! I finally said "lol I thought you appreciated honesty "

Then I logged off cuz I was sick of waiting for a reply.

DID I FUCK THIS UP BY NEGGING HER when she had already shown some interest? Now she's not that hot but I don't want to make a mistake next time. Please help guys...

Its hard to say really. I had girls where we be sending messages back to back and then the next one from the girl won't come until the next day. With negging online I pretty much take the direct approach because people can interpret things in so many ways.

i think it was a lil strong considering she already told you she is feeling you, you needed to make convo then neg her on what she says...imo

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