Here is the situation. After reading the first 90 pages of "The Game" last Friday I was fired up to try some of these techniques out. My wingman and I hit up a couple of bars and had a few conversations with some ladies until at the second bar this HB8 (I assume that it is Hot Babe scored 8/10) came up to me because I was wearing a goofy peacocking hat. The rest of the night my buddy macked on her friend HB8.75 while I macked on the origional girl. We all had a great time and at the end of the night the girl I was with asked if I was going to call her to which I replied harshly that I couldn't because she hadn't given me her number. After a minute of fiddling with my new phone I got her number in and we went seperate ways.

Ten minutes later she called to see if we wanted to get some food. I told her we were meeting some friends so we had to go, but really the thought of trying to stay awake in a diner when the one girl HB8 clearly expressed to me that she had to work early tomorrow and the party was over, didn't sound like fun. She said to call her later then to hang out.

At the bar I had also gotten both their email addresses to show them a video I worked on. The next evening I emailed the other girl HB8.75, who I was more attracted to asking her out. As of right now, I haven't heard back from her. I know it's a risky move to try and go out with a girl whose best friend you were macking on all night but something about her just made me do it. We did have some good conversation and things in common.

Any thoughts, I was planning on chilling for a couple more days and then emailing her again?

Thanks,

NYCer

Maybe try doing some things with both of them at the same time. From there, you could see which you liked more. Haha, 3some?

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this is a tough one.

1) your wing was mackin on her and you had the other.

2) you have to have a set plan with you and your wing. help each other out and it will work for the best.

3) the hb8 threw herself at you by asking you out. that is a sign that you should've takin.

4) and to me it doesn't look like you have built enough comfort with either of them. this is a big problem that i m seeing.

if you wanna fix this i would just make them friends. not to sound mean or nothin but there are other fish in the see and you have to lose some to gain some. its a hard thing but use this experience as a practice. don't let them think of you as try-hard. if you do that then you are gonna get blown out. if you got the number you should time bridge, say something like "hey i am planning on goin to the coffee shop up the road, you should meet me there." and then if she does then you bounce from there and go window shopping or something. just make sure you are building comfort. and then if you can get one into you then you can get the other. in The Game styles talks about how he was about to get a 3some. look up on the forum about how to get chicks to agree to a threesome and then do it. thats about all i can do for you man the rest is up to you. have fun and don't let it get you down. its practice, keep trying get better and then find hotter more exhilerating women and get to know them. later

Reddro

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I hear that dude. Sometimes you just have to chalk one up for practice. My wing and i need to develop some subtle signals or ways to communicate when out in the field. Life goes one you have to enjoy the journey.

Thanks for the advice,

NYer