Hi all

I went sarging Friday and Sat night. Both times, i realized that I have a problem whenit comes to isolate.

On Friday, I was in a pub, I started chatting with a girl, very natural way and so on...but I had no ideas of how to isolate her in a small pub? What can i show her that couldn't show her when we were sitting? I guess i can't just say: there is something i want to show you home, since she wasn't comfortable enough with this idea for sure. At the end, I drove her back, but there was also one of her friend with us, so I couldn't try anything

And on saturday, I approached a group of 3 men and 5 girls. It was at a beach party, so people were dancing. I started to dance like the men, I had the trust I needed by the 3 men, at least I though. Then I noticed that one of the 5 girls, HB6-7, who was obviously not a gf of any of the 3, started looking at me, so i go to here, I start dancing, but again, I had no ideas of how to isolate her. Where can I take her? how come she would come with someone she has barely even started to dance with? So after 1 minute, of the 3 guys comes over and separate us. I didn't push further (people are a little bit crazy where I am now, so I don't take tis kind of risk). Does anyone have any ideas on what should I have done?

Thansk a lot

you could have said "jeez, this pub is very small/quiet/nothing much happening here. I think I'm gonna head somewhere else soon" (sets time limit). Then after 15 minutes say you're gonna move to another place and does she want to come with you?

If she says no, get her number and move on.

At the beach party you could have suggested making sandcastles (I've never been to a beach party but that's what I would have done).

the problem is that:

for the pub: we were here for a friend's birthday, this is how we met. I couldn't have left just like that you know. But in other conditions, I think your idea could work yeah.

Bor the beach party: it depends on the beach party, but in this one, you don't really have access to the sand. This beach party was just a party with regular clothes and stuff, but the place is over the beach, and security doesn t let you go swim and so on...But again, it would have been a good idea for other beach parties with access to the sand. But an other question: would she be comfortable enough to agree to come wit someone she hasn't even spoken a word? and would the AMOG let me grab her so easily?

If your target is with a bunch of friends and you cant move to a different location then you can "isolate" her by turning her so that her back is towards her friends and she is facing you. She still has the comfort of being near her friends yet they are out of sight out of mind.

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If your a smoker and espeicaly if she is, ( Im assuming smoking inside pubs is banned where you are), the step out side for a cigarette. If shes digging you she likely wont care about it even if she doesn't. I know other guys who have used this line and seeking acceptance the non-smoker will even ask for one.