2 nights ago my roomate and his girlfriend had one of her friends over for dinner, she was hot. I was pretty shy, made a couple of comments but nothing special, then yesterday the 4 of us went to the driving range and i tried to show her how to swing the club (although it wasn't really an ioi but we did have a little moment) then last night the 4 of us went to a bar, I immediately went to the bathroom before we sat down, when i got to the table she was sitting next to the girlfriend and my friend was sitting next to me (all 4 facing eachother) I dont know if it was paranioa or what but i then thought she set it up like that because maybe she didn't want me hitting on her...idk thats just me...but we did talk a little bit, she was smiling. I know whether or not this girl likes me i will be paired up with her sooner or later because of are mutual friends, what things do i need to do to get this girl?? is it already to late?

I doubt it's too late. But you do need to adjust your mindset about this whole thing. I don't think the sitting arrangement was deliberate. Either she chose to sit like it or she didn't, either way, you've over analyzed it and now it bugs you. Let go of the little things she does, you want her to respond to YOU and not the other way around. Sounds like you're being set up anyway so it's almost as easy as coming off like the best option for your target. Just relax and have fun while doing it.


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So my roommate just told me that last night his girlfriend was talking to the girl that i am tryin to get with and told her that i smoke. She said the girl sounded really disappointed like she had been feelin me. How to i go about fixing this? even though i have no intention of quitting

Don't change yourself to appease someone. Why should you? You should quit for yourself.

Also quit oveanalyzing the situaion. It doenst matter who you sat next to, what matters is that she has fun with you when yall hang out. Your roommate and her gf are trying to set the two of you up. You are putting too much pressure on yourself... relax.....

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