hey

how do you sarge without friends ?
any tips, advice, stories ? very appreciated

also how to make friends i got none, I can make friends easily but I always lose them and i dont know why.

Peace

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To sarge without friends, you just go in and know that you have to handle an entire set by yourself.

One on one is easy, but rarely will you get high quality targets alone since high quality includes friends.

Open bigger sets. The bigger,m the better since the more people in the set, the less intrusive you are. Open with something like, "Hey! My friends were a no show. You all look like you are having fun. Let me ask you a question." Then open an opinion about what they think whether no show friends are unreliable.

The BIble says,
Prov:18:24: So, be friendly and you'll get friends.

I literally went sarging solo last night...my first time ever...i choked like a typical AFC. I couldn't remember my openings...I did everything wrong...past the three sec rule...had 2 girls open me and choked...walked past a HB8 that gave me crazy good eye contact...It was a nightmare and a blessing...

I got home...the power was out which is why i went out (stay home in dark or go out sarging...) but i reflected on all the "wrongs" I did objectively. I'm going out again solo tonight...ready or not...i'm only working on the 3sec rule...and speaking without that nervous tick in my voice.

the key is, easier said than for me to actually do, is just be relaxed and not care what happens. Talk to EVERYONE (men and women).

It's not easy but I'm still going to suck it up and power through.

You have to know your routine pefectly because you have no-one to give you advice or help, it is do-able, just harder.

As for your friends situation, ill be your friend lol

Witz out....

The most valuable thing in a venue is social proof. Having a wing seems almost mandatory to me, but pivots are even better. The only people I've ever heard of success while solosarging are online or in books, everyone i know whose tried it in real life said it was a weird experience. Find guys in your area new to pickup to learn with *cough*, in the mean time, I would focus more on day game.

I recommend everyone sarge solo at least once in a while. It sharpens your game because you have no friends as safety nets.

Solo sarging is no different to going to any event solo. I went to a live outdoor music festival. At one point a couple of guys borrowed some seats near me and we started chatting. Met some guys on the train in and bumped into them later that day. Chatted to a couple of girls at one point, had 1 or 2 girls urge me to keep dancing cos I was tired and had stopped dancing for a break.

Then later in the night, one girl said something interesting to me, can't remember the details. Then another one helped me put on a glow stick bracelet and asked how I was doing.

I think the key is to try and seem like you're having fun. I smiled at probably 50-100 people throughout the day.

tbh, I don't really sarge solo, if I go solo my aim is to meet some fun people, preferably girls though. One night I said hello to every single person that went to the bar and ended up playing pool with a guy who's friends didn't show.

most of the time ill be walking somewhere by myself and ill see an HB.
at which point i go into solo mode
or ill be at a party and ill lose my friends or watever and again solo mode.
it comes with the territory.
i try to do as much as i can actually when i dont have a wing because i dont want to have to rely on it.

having friends is nice. but when u number score a 2 or 3set by yourself. you feel ontop of the world.

i would just go with simple things.
example:
i was on the way home on the train today and i arrived in the station. this HB8 brunette was on her phone frantically looking around and walking past me. i brushed it off no big deal.
5 minutes later i had just gotten my ticket for my second train and there she is again still on the phone.
solo mode.
i went straight up to her and asked her if she was from jersey because i didnt understand the train routes. she was like no actually staten island. me: really? so your just as lost as i am
we hit it off from there. number close. end of story.
most of the game is being able to adapt to anything. wing or no wing.
good luck my friends.
-GL

The club/bar game is a bit different. If you go solo, go chat up the bouncer and bartender first. Just chat . . . Befriend them . .

If you can't befriend a bouncer or bartender at a bar, there's really no reason to even go this far. Unless those guys are total weirdos, you can easily befriend the guys that work there. Now work on a guy set. Yeah . . . just do it. You'll always find AFC's who go and just chill out by themselves because they have no game. High five's, talk about sports whatever. Meet everybody. Now you're somewhat warmed up. You feel more comfortable. Now you tell those guys, "Hey, you know what? I'm going to go hit on some chicks!" AFC's love hearing this shit. You'll get, "Doh, you the man!" "Oh, you're a playa!" "My man here's Don Juan" . . .etc . .

Don't think the girls don't notice this. They have radar coverage of every corner of any club scanning for alpha males. Really . . . ask any doctor, as it's a female 6th sense that they're born with.

Now you roll and when you say tell your targets, "I gotta get back to my friends." Well, you really gotta get back to your friends. When you get a number, you go back to the male set and say, "Got her number. . . Alright . . I'm going in again . . ." . . . Hey, who's the leader of men?

I Think it starts before you leave the house...the clothes, cologne, Shoes & Attitude! You should already know you are gonna"clown" you some honeys before you left the mirror. Prep is the Key! some say to Practice your opener on the way to the venue, I believe if you go into the club like you own it, walk slowly letting them check you out..a lot of the work is done...And don't go out too early...make your appearence fashionably late...so when you walk in the door...you don't blend in with the crowd & all eyes will be on you!!

Remember don't trip, It's just a game!!

Being new to the community myself I don't think saging solo is the right way to start. I've already choked several times because I didn't have someone there to nudge me and give me the confidence to approach. It doesn't even matter if the person you're with is just as nervous. If you're nervous together you can work wonders.

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true that... but dude.... i thought that sarging alone counted out group theory. when sarging alone, i usually only open lone chix... or pairs at most... (when not in a club)

when in a club, my strategy when alone is to walk by and high five everyone i meet, then keep walking... lol chances are, since they're having fun they wont leave you hanging... then you come back later on some..." hey! you're that person i high fived earlier, show me where the real party is. who you chilling with?"

ha ha ha works for me.

This is a good one! I for one really enjoy opening sets of HB's whilst solo. To have the confidence to go up to a set of women that you dont know by yourself shows exemplory confidence.

All of my friends are complete and utter 'wusses' and wouldn't dream of chatting up women. So i usually just do it by myself. i just say 'my friends have gone for a cigarette, you guys look good fun, can you make me look popular by standing with me". I used that line on thursday it wored really well, i saw a few IOI's but im not very good abeing completly sexually confident and introducing 'kino' as i always feel embarased to touch a woman i don't know because i immedietly think of 'what if she thinks im a creep?'

hope if helped

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