I don't want a relationship, and this girl does. I'm not into dating right now, because I'm only 17 and no girls my age are mature enough to have a real relationship.

Is there any way to say no to a relationship and make the girl want me in a different way instead? I don't want sex, but I want her to like me in that lusting-type way.

First you need to tell a bit more, what is your current situation with this girl, how far have you gone?

This is just my personal opinnion, but I don't think its a very nice thing to do to any girl.. as basically you'll be keeping her one-itising you even though you don't want her.. and don't get me wrong, I have done it myself, so I don't judge you, but stopped doing it at some point when I realized it..

Ok, so if you're still in for it, you'll have to play a push-pull game all the time.. and always be the funny and charismatic etc. guy. So that you'll be the perfect guy in her eyes and she'll actually believe that maybe she'll have a chance at you at some point if she just tries hard enough. So one week, do a lot with her, see her a few times, do something really fun, then dissapear again for a few days with no contact etc..

Its like you'd be stretching up your regular game but without ever reeching the k-close.

I don't want her to have oneitis for me, I just want her to see things the way I do and realize relationships don't work out at this age.

I haven't done anything with her, that's not her thing. And yeah, I've been playing push-pull for a while.

So basically you want to LJBF her? Usually its the other way around here Just make it very clear that you don't want a relationship at this point of life but that you think she is a very fun person to be with and that you'd love to be friends.. then its pretty much up to her if she can handle being just friends (cause she obviously wanted more)

Haha, I was thinking more LJBFWB.

I'm thinking I'll do just that. I'll use the "I don't really want a relationship but we'll see what happens" line.

Well either way you'll be just stringing her around for your benefit. Just keep hinting you're not exclusive.

I don't hint. I say "I don't date". If they have a problem with that it's their loss.

im telling you, negging is the key to the game. If you neg a chick, your stock in her eyes is just shooting up. and you literally cant neg a chick too hard...and its so much fun.

if she wants it go for it

Best policy is honesty

Just tell it how it is, if she wants to be friends (or whatever it is you want) Cool. If not its her loss. Simple.

Well you suck my friend.

I hope that wasn't a too hard neg !

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