I wanted to post this in the "building Comfort and Attraction" section, but I dont have enough posts :/

Anyway, I've been talking to this chick on MSN for a few days now. We met on a kind of dating site, so we've never seen each other in real life. Shes quite a bit older than me, and but shes pretty damn sexy, and a really cool person as well. We've had decent conversations so far, and we have a lot in common, and more importantly we both like to have *casual incounters* (which is awesome, but I'm not just looking for a cheap ****) So I'm wondering how to set up a meeting (not necessarily a bootycall though) without sounding creepy or needy. Also, I want to step up the attraction and get her feeling hot :]

Any advice guys?

if i were you slick, id quite simply bring her for a few drinks in a cool bar. that covers all the bases. what you can do then is maybe go for some food, take a walk, you know change venues to build trust and that. then hopefully the drinks will have loosened you both up and you can see what happens.

That would be great, except that I'm 18. Now, I dont usually get carded, but I dont want to take that chance, as it would essentially ruin the date.

offer her to play a game online...

and the bet should be cooking forthe other or sth like that.
lose the game.

meet with her for having your forfeit.

use lots of kino:)

good luck!:)

ps.why dont u go to a park or sth?

"i'm going to see this new movie thats out, have you heard about it", "there's this cool place I found the other day i'd love to show you, coming?"

Find somewhere interesting, like a cool little café or park or some art exhibit and invite her. It doesn't have to involve alcohol and you should probably stay away as getting carded and being refused would put a downer on the evening. Make her an interesting offer and don't care if she wants to come or not.

Good luck!