Little bit of a field report....

True story btw: I was at the 7th annual Google party last night. It was amazing, hot women everywhere, especially my favorite: Asians.

So anyway, I'm on the dance floor having a good time. Two girls come up to me, say hi...and start flirting. The hotter one (hot asian), introduces her friend, but wont tell me her name.

I completely forget about any sort of PU theory, and just start playfully talking, dancing, kino...

I had a feeling that the one who told me her name was interested in me, but when I looked at her closely, I could tell she was drunk. Not sure if any IOI's can be counted with drunk chicks. The hot asian wasnt drunk, but she was a little harder to crack. She flirted, but I think so that Id hit on her friend.

anyway...im trying to be friendly, blah blah...then the one who I thought liked me says" you're lame, laughs". Female neg? Maybe she really thought so.

This is what fucked me up....the hot asian spills wine all over my hands. I say "look what you did...now you gotta clean it up!". She proceeds to take a finger, and seductively lick the wine off my hand. It was hot!

But then they leave, I never see them again. I'm left hanging, wanting the asian chick like crazy now...they're gone. I thought the asian at first wasnt interested. This makes me think otherwise, but it couldve all been a giant cock tease.

so something i did or said made them loose interest. do i need to be the most fun guy on the dance floor to keep their interest? how do you game on the dance floor when its really too loud and crowded to talk?

i dont want to let opps like this slip away again so I need to fix the kinks in my armour. I dont let what the drunk girl said get me down like some guys might. She doesnt know me, so how can anything she said be accurate as to what Im really like. Plus she was drunk.

anyway, looking for some advice for anyone whos been in a similar situation. was this just a tease for them to mess with me, i cant figure it out.

she licked wine off your hand?

what more of an indicator do you want? lost opportunity! never hesitate next time.

maybe you should have gone after them to ask them where they are going so fast

yeah, blew that one. it was so crowded...i didnt wanna feel like a chump and follow em. guess i shouldve seen here IOIs before hand and moved in sooner. I need to start fine tuning so i can pickup on this shit. i sometimes forget that women like sex as mush as we do, just go bout getting it different.

train yourself to never hesitate. act quickly

the way I trained myself to do it was deciding what I was going to accept/not accept BEFORE I get to the location/party/whatever

"Hot asian is into me" - YES
"Not so hot asian is into me" - NO

you cannot have any 'MAYBE' ... decide beforehand.

once the situation arises, you already made the decision before. bam, jump right in.

that's how I did it to train myself to never wait around and strike while it's hot

The asian chick was shit testing and teasing you at the same time. She wanted to see how alpha you where and if you could really handle her. She also seem to be a high value chick as well from her actions. Which means she would had been even harder to nab.

good advice guys. yeah, i definitely need to start being more alpha out there and ditch my beta qualities.

Two hot girls approached and licked wine off of your hand.....
Well, something about you interested them.

Work on identifying ioi's. I dont think you would have seemed creepy if you would have followed them. Who cares if you do anyway, its not like you are ever going to see them again. Next time, move in for the kill... make the move and if they are not interested, they will let you know. If they are... you will soon find out.

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I would have followed them and if the hot asain said "Why are you foloowing me?" I ould have said "You missed a spot, let's go back to your place and finsih it right." If that (or something better possibly?) doesn't work then they're probably lesbians trying to turn each other on before going back home. They didn't leave with any other guy, right?

again good advice. problem is that i forget about game when its in session and kinda just use whatever i can, which sometimes works, but not always.

i think i need to neg more and quicker...and push away. i tend to let them have my attention, which i think turns them off even if initially they were interested.