I been talking to this girl on myspace since yesterday. I got her hooked but don't know how to number close... She didn't respond to my last message yesterday. I added her today and she accepted. I left her a picture comment on one of her pics where she was wearing a black and yellow outfit. I noticed her nails were red so I negged her on it. I said something like

"baby, were gonna have to take u to get those nails hooked up, you definitely can't take me to dinner not matching... I hope you weren't wearing red heels too LOL" and she commented me back saying:

BRAT!!

What should I respond?? And how would I number close?? Here's our conversation...

*note my name on myspce says I'm going to rosarito in 11 days. She said 4 days so I'm guessing she was tryn to say she was also going in 4 days. I read some where on here not to take her lead and contrl the frame by using her remarks and twisitng them into your own conversation. So that's where I came in on her takiing me to dinner in 4 days, when she really meant she was going to rosarito in 4 days...

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From: <a href='http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... ee9'>party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!</a>
Date: Aug 18, 2008 8:21 PM


I'm too stubborn and and youre too possesive you'd never be able to control me and you'd probably be pissed about it =) and I've handled plenty of scorpios. All I gotta say is scorpions can't survive in the ocean =P

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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 8:06 PM


lol.....yep yep scorpio's are too much for u mr. aquarius... couldnt even begin to handle someone like me:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 7:58 PM


Helllllllllla off I was gonna say your hair haha jk you were close.... I was gonna say you have this good positve energy/vibe about you... Too bad you're a scorpio... It would never work out between us ... =P

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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 7:45 PM


hmmm.... my charming personality:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 7:28 PM


cecilia.... Nice, you know what I like about you?? Take a wild guess =)

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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 7:08 PM


cecilia

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 3:39 PM



Well let's fix that fast cuz I don't wanna have to start chargin you for my entertainment Lol and my names xavier by the way.... Not to be so mysterious Lol
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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 2:41 PM


Lol. . good i cud use some smiling in my life:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 9:36 PM

i can be... =)you know that guy in high school... the one that everytime the teacher said something he always had something smart ass to say...the guy who always made everybody laugh.... the guy who always ended up in detention or in the office... yup that was me...lol i just like to make people smile.. if you know what i mean ;)its kinda my job... what i was put on this earth for... at least till you can make my dream come true =P
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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 2:19 PM


Lol. . ur silly:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 8:40 PM

okay okay... i understand some of us just need to "feel" like theyre in control sometimes.. good thing i believe in equal status in any kind of relationship... or we'd be in trouble.... lol and i hope so... ive always wondered what itd be like to go to mars and meet lil wayne =)

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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 1:21 PM


Lol. . first of all the ball stays in 'my' court at all times. . . and i'd probably take u to places u' ve only dreamt about:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 8:12 PM

good answer.. i would never put the ball in a girls hands...
woman are known for "droppin the ball" you probably would end up taking me to "dennys" or somethin LOL

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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 12:43 PM


Lol. . wait 'I' take u to dinner? nice one:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 7:12 PM

wow 4 days until you take me out to dinner... you move pretty fast! haha

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From: ..♥ One Of A Kind ♥..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 7:02 AM


Lol. . duh.. PeRsONaLITY 4 days:)

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From: ..party X to ROSARITO IN 11 DAYS!!!..
Date: Aug 18, 2008 6:42 AM

pretty cute... but seems like every other girl out here these days is beauty.. whats makes you different from them??

Dont think TOO hard.. =)
-X

anybody??

There's definitely some playful bantering going on...and you were looking good in the beginning, but she ultimately took control of the frame and now has you eating out of her hand.

Basically, what happened (in my opinion) is you built up some good attraction teasing each other back and forth for a few messages but you never transitioned to qualification...you just kept running attraction with the teasing bits....which eventually fizzled out and her attraction temperature fell.

Don't go for the number close cuz I don't think you'll get it at this point. I recommend freezing her out for a week or two then re-opening her with an attraction story and ask a qualification question at the end.

Here's the model I follow, which works flawlessly!




-V

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sounds good... what would be a good qualifying question at this point?

so on my profile it says i work at this mall. and it says i work at at&t which i do.. i work at a kiosk. today i was on my cellphone and i looked up and there she was!! she was acting like she was on the phone also... i didnt make eye contact because it was kinda too late... my co worker said she walked by with a smirk.. i showed my friend her profile on myspace to make sure it was her... he said he was 100% sure it was her and im pretty sure it was her also... i was going to try freezing her our like vap0r said... but after todays "incident" what should i do???

rofl you ran into each other in person??? haha that's hilarious!

Wait, she didn't know beforehand that you worked there did she?

If she doesn't know you saw her then act like it never happened.

If you guys made eye contact and recognized each other then you're gonna have to bust on her for "stalking you." But by your explanation I think it's the first scenario right?

V

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im thinking its the second because she didnt have any shopping bags.. and it says on my profile where i work...but maybe she was trying to see "what was up with me" my co worker said she was smirking as she walked by... so i def think she knew i worked here

I still say act like it never happened. I just can't think of how to bring it up in a way that would help your cause. You could playfully tease her about being a stalker, but if for some reason it wasn't actually her or she didn't recognize you then you'll look bad.

Bottom line: I would only bring it up if you guys made solid eye contact and recognized each other and therefore it would be awkward NOT to mention it.


V

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that's exactly what I was thinking... I'm gonna try and change my "status update" to " stalked" which is an option see if I get any kind of reaction.. If not I'm gonna do what u said and freeZe her out and then try to reopen her.

So I tried changing my status to "stalked" and waala I geta message from her... Subject: sooo......
Body: what's your story???

Here's pretty much how it went. She just asked about my past present and future... She's got me kinda stumped now... Any help??

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From: <a href='http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... 10a9a7'>my last was a test NOW IM IN THE BIG LEAGUES</a>
Date: Aug 21, 2008 6:35 AM


lol. . yes wat i meant was ur past present and future where ur at in each point
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From: <a href='http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... 946'>party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!</a>
Date: Aug 21, 2008 12:20 AM


I'll tell you after I'm done writing it...lol =D you really gotta be more specific than "what's your story" try again sweetie...

Here: I'll tell you this much, I like to lead and be a star. I shoulda been an actor or somethin... Not a rapper though... Everybody I know is a damn rapper.. You agree??
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whats your story>????

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"Before you can achieve you must first believe you can achieve"

BIG IOI that she re-opened YOU! But doh! You jump through her hoops again You complied pretty hard with her vague qualification question. Think for a sec....what has this girl done to deserve a response from you...and your time? Not much. I think you should have ended the message after you said you'd tell her after you're done writing it.

Or I would have turned it into humor and been sarcastic. Maybe say something like:

Promise not to tell anyone? Everyone thinks I'm just a super fun guy who likes to play guitar, but at night...I dress up like a spider and fight crime.

Actually, you can still use that message I guess. Just now say:

Promise not to tell anyone? Everyone thinks I'm just a super fun guy who likes to play guitar, but at night...I dress up like a spider and fight crime! Do you have any secret awesome superpowers?

This message is playful and fun and should create some attraction..plus it should get her to start qualifying herself.

V

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so I FINALLY number closed today...now what... should I freeze her out for a couple days and get her wondering why I'm not hitting her up?? I also don't want her to think I'm scare to hit her up or something.. And what if she messages me back again? Any suggestions?

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"Before you can achieve you must first believe you can achieve"

Wait, who did u # close? Which girl? PM me and paste the entire convo if u dont wanna post it on here. I'm curious to see it.

V

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From: <a href='http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... >(F.L.I.P). . . FUCK LOVE IM PIMPIN</a>
Date: Aug 21, 2008 8:02 PM


*******

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From: <a href='http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... e90'>party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!</a>
Date: Aug 21, 2008 7:41 PM


Okay that works. Make sure u make it message good then. Something like "good morning swwetie, have a good day at work" would be good. Thanks =)

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MY NUMBER? nah. . i guess we' ll just limit ourselves to 1 message a day

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From: party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!
Date: Aug 21, 2008 7:06 PM


Give me your cell phone number...you're gettin carried away blowin up my myspace inbox =P
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right;)
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From: party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!
Date: Aug 21, 2008 6:50 PM


I didn't know you worked there. But if corona works with you then you work or Norma =D ??? Duh
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then y play dumb. . ?

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From: party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!
Date: Aug 21, 2008 6:43 PM


Actually u work for my girl Norma

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no. get it rite.
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From: party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!
Date: Aug 21, 2008 6:16 PM


Hahaha you mean before you got intimidated and looked away =p you work with her?

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lol. . .no my mom is tho;) im pretty sure we made eye contact today. . . i was walkin with corina.
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From: party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!
Date: Aug 21, 2008 6:06 PM


Thaaats funny ain't. never seen u around...I hope your not one of those girls that goes around cleaning the bathrooms lol
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seein as how im stuck there 35 hours a week i just mite say hi on the way out
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From: party X to ROSARITO IN 9 DAYS!!!
Date: Aug 21, 2008 5:13 PM


Yup and you love it =) next time ur at Oakridge don't forget to say hi, I don't bite
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ur officially a brat . .
mr at&th

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"Before you can achieve you must first believe you can achieve"

Nice! You may want to edit the post and take out her phone number though

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