Alright, I know this has been covered but I couldnt find it. If your to the point where your about to have sex, making out ect., but she starts to resist anything more what are some tactics? Thanks.

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"Peacocking, its a lifestyle"

nice

Anyone?

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"Peacocking, its a lifestyle"

The mystery method details this effectively. You should read it.

But in case you can't get your hands on a copy, here it is in brief: The freeze out. Just stop trying. Go get a drink or go back to cuddling or something. Don't be angry, because there really wasn't a point where you said 'let's fuck' and she said 'eww, no'. It never works like that. If she is saying stuff like 'this is wrong, we shouldn't' then you just go 'I know' and keep going. Maybe lessen it off a little, but don't just stop.

But really, get a copy of the mystery method. It is good from start to end.

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Backfire gave two solid techniques. Another one that I've used is that at any point I feel that she is starting to withdraw, I will try and steal her frame. So if we're making out and I sense from her nonverbals that she is about to resist, I will pull back and say, "You're not one of those girls who is going to take advantage of me and never call me the next day." It does two things: it steals the frame she might be starting to see the interaction in and breaks her state by switching from where she may be a victim to now being portrayed as a predator. Usually it gets a laugh and a hell no, at which point I continue doing what I am doing and progressing. If she feels like she is resisting about to pull out resistances again, I do it again by saying something like, "You swear, pinky swear?"

The key is to be able to pick up on when she is about to express resistance and beat her to the punch. If the kisses start becoming less passionate, she starts to kinda freeze up, etc. these are signs. The overall goal is to keep her mind as far as possible from activating the Anti-Slut defense.

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a good one is the neil strauss story. genius. heres - roughly - how it goes:

once upon a time a guy and a beautiful girl were wlking in opposite directions down a road. they made eye contact, and both stopped and said hi. it wasnt a normal thing for them to do, completely unplanned and spontaneious. so they started talking and everything just seemed to flow, they had everything in common, and both fascinated each other. so she ends up going back to his place and still the relationship is flowing like water. eventually they reach the conclusion that it is fate that had brought them together, and if they truly were destined then fate would again reunite them. so they both go their seperate ways. but a few years later a plague struck, killing off thousands of people in the city. and yet again, at the same time, on the same street, the same two people meet and embrace, they follow the same pattern, and seperate, waiting for destiny to bring them together again.

it is similar to this. you can use it best in the comfort phases, which pre disarms the lmr.

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you have to deal with LMR before you reach that point

you have to use little tactics from beginning to end to avoid LMR

well put sir

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