How do people usually change from attracted person, to gf? Do you ask her, and how do you ask? I was reading the thread about "The worst things you've said to a girl" and a lot of direct phrases seem very AFC and don't work very well.

And how do you answer to the qustion "are you a virgin" if yo'ure a virgin?

For me when i go from attracted person to gf it usually happens something like this:

Meet girl
Flirt with her a bit
mess around
mess around again
in bed discuss the idea that i think we should only mess around with each other
have some deep discussions
transition to say you're "seeing eachother"
wait 1 month = girlfriend

That's the recipe.

For the virgin question say "tell you what. I've slept with less than 5 girls and that's all you're getting out of me!"

It would still technically be true.

CPT

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"Wait, so let me get this straight. One really big meal a day then we go to sleep, no paper towels but a little bit of bread because we're not Nazis and as many popsicles as we want."

im in the same boat

Lately I've been talking to this one girl in particular. She's nineteen years old (as am I) and I got the vibe that she had definitely been with her 'fair share' of guys.

One night, she was staying over at my house, and while we were in bed she asked me how many girls i have slept with. At first I dismissed the question. She then said that shed tell me how many guys she'd been with...

As I said before, I got the feeling that she had slept around with quite a few guys. So, needless to say I was pretty curious. But.. she insisted that I confess my numbers first.

This is where my question arises. I lost my virginity at 15 to an ex of mine with whom I was with for three years. I just ended this relationship last summer, but she had been the only girl that I have had sex with. I'm not at all ashamed of it but I wasn't sure whether it would be a good thing to tell her or not..............would it make her feel weird if we were to end up having sex?

Let me say finally that it doesn't bother whatsoever. I am not intimidated the slightest bit and I feel very confident in bed. I think that if we were to ever sleep together that shed be able to tell I'm no rookie

Should I have told her?

Id have to say if someone asks a virgin if they are one.

You need to RELAX
If you get nervous and they sense it... you just ruined your game?
Are you ashamed of who you are? No
Chances are you have standards. Good for you!(At least tell yourself that)

Now that your in the right frame of mind tell her whatever you want. Saying yes can definitly release any performace issues you might have. Although really its not that hard to figure out what your doing let yourself go and enjoy the moment. If you worry about the end game while your in the end game I dont really know why your after women.