Ok I was bored today I was doing house work YAY,so when i was taking a break I was going threw my notes and came up with a few comfort building questions..I havn't tested these in the field, however I have tested some of them online with good results so far...So let me know what ya think and add more if you got them...Also depending on witch one obviously there is a certain situation these will fall into at a point of a conversation....so here ya go...Thanks guys....Jamie V.



Oh yea if you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?and why?


"I'm looking/listening at/to what your interests are,but what is your passion?
If you could end up doing anything at all in the world what would it be?
By the way don't say princess" compliments of jsmooth



Ok so I was thinking.If you could go anywere in the world were would you go?And why?
And dont say my house.


Oh hey i amlmost forgot.If you could meet anyone in the world who would it be?And why?
Dont say me.


If you could have all the money in the world,what would you spend it on?And dont
say clothes/me.



So if you had a choice on any car you could drive,what kind would it be?
And dont say mine.

Wow we have so much in common,if we were together what would you want our kids
to be named?Dont let that go to your head!

Close your eyes,tell me the first thing you thought about me?Dont say that i was nice,hot/cute,
or sweet..we both know this already..

If we were to be in public,and i kissed you what kind of emotion would you feel?And dont
let your head swell,i'm still not to sure about you yet...

pretty good stuff. am def gonna try these out in the field

ya, some of those sounded pretty good. super sweet, but still they might just work. I'll try to remember a few and give em a go.

gw

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If you could smack an celebrity on the ass and say "good game" who would it be... this gets her laughing and thinking i use it as an opener as well to add interest and get a conversation goin, it always leads to movie type or me smacking her on the ass depending on the IOI's

Hey i loved those. I'm gonna try em. and by the way i hope you wouldn't mind if i post here OP...


Hey guys (i guess I don't have enough posts to put up a new thread). Apologies if i shouldn't be doing this... but guys this is really important to me!

Sofar there's new 2 girls I'm pretty interested in that I've met.

I just started school 2 days ago exact. I've had literally no AA and I've been opening to groups of people/girls with no problem.

One girl (who I only see at lunch) that I talked to yesterday and today... I was introduced by a female friend to her, talked, gave comfort, threw some light negs in, did the guessing numbers esp games and got both ones right (yay lol) she thinks im psychic or crazy cuz i could guess what number she was thinking of... she then had me guess her birthmonth.. I asked her how creative she was.. and she said she was pretty creative. I asked her if she was really outgoing. she said ehhh. so then i was like. that eliminates this sign, that sign, this sign, etc. then i narrowed it down between like april-june... i guess april and it was may. but she was still amazed. Then I told her nice meeting you but I have to go...

hah. today I did some handwriting analysis where she wrote on a notepad "My shirt is red"... I have absolutely no idea about real handwriting analysis so I said, I noticed you didn't write a period... do you constantly not write periods? then I talked about that relates to how in when good situations or in good places she isn't the type of person to just want to stop having fun, that she's a person that likes to keep things going and going. and I had her visualize an awesome day at an amusement park and I tried to get her to replicate those emotions and amp them etcetc. then I said ok stop imagining but keep those emotions... I'm gonna play a new game. Then I read her palms... I did the "retard line" game and she was hilarious ! lol she was asking her friends and blah blah.. tons of kino as she was constantly grabbing my hands and arms to see my "retard line" on my palm. lol.. anyway I guess when I was looking the other way or talking to one of my friends (Who i introduced DHV style as the only kid who could sleep during any class and still get a 4 or 5 on the Ap test) her or her friend wrote on that one notebook her full name and her number on it and it said "call me"...

What I really want to do is K-close her at school. and soon. Lately I've been on a mad roll and I've been learning so much so i want to keep things going!! lol I've goten mad Ioi's... I'm thinking I can DHV a bit more, we have similar interests and both ambitious, then I want to sort of ignore her in her group, maybe have her hold something for me.. lol and gain even more trust with her friends, tell them about all the parties this summer, make a dhv story about how schools here so I'm trying to focus more but I tend to hang out with friend's too much and go out too much (which is pretty true).. Then invite the target out for a walk because I want to see a friend across the school and she should come. I'm thinking I'll sit her down after talking, anywhere, but not anywhere that would draw us too much attention. I'm gonna try some ross Jeffries tomorrow. Have her think of that feeling of absolute attraction to someone else.. give it a color, wavelike properties, the whole thing etc... then from there either ask her if she wants to kiss or go into evolutionary phase shift routine.

bam!

tipstipstips! lol

but heres my REAL problem.

There is a German exchange student. Here for 3 months only.

sits RIGHT next to me in an art workshop class. HB 8-8.5 especially because she looks so different from all the other girls. Her hair is brunette with slight tint of red.. perfect skin. etc.

sofar this is what I've done when it comes to interaction with her...

first day of school she sat way down the long ass table.. we cought eyes a few times. bell rang. i walked with a friend and told him to look at her solid nice legs and butt (she was wearing jeans) and I was just like damn man I want that, she needs me!!! She went another direction to her class. My friend was like go get ur girl! i was like aight i got it bro.. lol

I walked to the room she entered.. I pulled out my schedule and was like what room is this guys?? ohh.. wow. wrong room.. then i was in front of her. she smiled to me. I gave that "hey ive seen you before right?" look, I said hey I remember you... She said yes we had that last class together!
I put my hand out palm up, she grabbed it softly and we held for a few seconds before I said I didn't get your name.. she said her name and what's yours? I probably could've joked and said a celebrity or someone but I said my real name. Then I said hey well I'll seeyu, .. left. i felt good enough just for the approach ya know. cuz I honestly think nobody in our school has tried yet.

so today... we got seating arrangements for the class. i set right next to her. there were 3 ppl in our table. we exchanged small talk.. i mean SMALL talk. then we had group activity.. we had to talk to eachother and learn about eachother. for some reason the two girls CLICKED one girl had german grandparents and the other was full german so they talked about guess what? yea.. you guessed it.

anyway i didn't really get any talk in but I got in that my summer was tons of party/fun, maybe too much, so now I'm sort of recovering from that lifestyle trying to settle down just a littttle bit right. So then we present our groups... you're suppose to present someone else at the table right? So girl 1 presents girl two.. then girl two presents girl one... I'm left all by myself!!!

so i decide to be funny.. "hey, looking around and pointing to myself, This is matt! Over this summer he did a whole lot of everything. maybe a little too much. anyway, I'm hungry so I think I'm gonna eat now. " everyone laughed since it was obvious they forgot about me.

After that we didn't talk for the last 10 mins of class. For the first time in a long time i was completely thoughtless on what to say to this german babe..

anyway.

Should I just treat this like any other girl?
Can you guys tell me your best stuff to build rapport with her...
I have 3 months. She has 3 months. She also might have a bf back over there.. so take that into account.

I would say treat her like any other girl, but give her a special SPAM: hang out with her at school. It makes things go a lot faster (you only got a short 3 month time-constraint)
Build comfort, just talking for ever about all & nothing, you know that stuff, and when she shows signs of interest, ignore them for a while until they get bigger. By hanging out with her, you could make that 1st girl jealous (leading to that kiss-close you want!), and also scare off any competition that's tryna get to the german girl.
I don't ask girls if they got a BF. I don't know if it changes anything or makes things awkward for her if she admits that she does, but girls don't to talk to guys about other guys if when they're interested. So I would suggest you don't ask & don't care if she's taken, back in Germany.
You asked about building rapport: Do you know the fish & hook technique? You ask her a question & u tell a (short or long) story that has to do with her answer. If you can't relate, then ask another question.

ex:
You: where you from?
Random HB: I'm chinese
you: Really, you know I once had a great friend that was from china! his name was ... (insert funny story)

You got 3 months but you seem to be doing very well man! But I don't know if u actually need advice.

hahaha i tried all those questions the other day without even knowing of this. but it wasnt so C&F with ours, the we were having more of a fun heart to heart thing while cuddling and taking turns asking

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Hahaha! I love the "If you could go anywhere... don't say my house" thing. I like the way it implies something, rather than being explicit, the way "who would you like to meet?... don't say me" is. I think implying that she may want you builds comfort better and doesn't seem so much like you're thinking of sex (ie being needy, hence lowering your value). Anyone with more experience wanna say whether my instinct here is good?

The last one was gold

Witz out...

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what if the girl asks "what about you?"


do you have any text book answers for those questions that chicks will most likely digg? i'm not sure if my answers would be good..

Well when I ask them questions I know there is a possibility that she will say that.So I answer them wwith the first thing that comes to mind..Basicly DHV myself to a point ..There really isn't any text book answers to these it is just a go with the flow answer..

Ok thanks

pretty good stuff this is what i need to get better at. thanks for the post.

this is the shit. It totally works, nice man

a bit of an extention to that last one u posted up man. the emotional kissing one is pretty interesting. i find if im in the seduction stage, and we'll be talking about kissing, and the history of it and what not. short stories all of them. short and interesting. il insert into the conversation a few lines about how some ancient society developed a special type of kissing, called soul kissing. (technique developed by yours truly. it feels pretty awesome to have my own tech on here. i gotta say...) il tell her how its not a literal translation, but just a western name for the kiss. the literal translation is something like the sharing of ones soul or something. anyway, the way you do it, is you make yourself feel a certain emotion. (playing off nlp? lol. i used to do this way before i read any of this stuff tho) so you tell her to pick wat emotion she wants to share. passion, attraction, happyness, connection. i guess it could be anger and sadness and shit too, but why would u do that? anyway, tell her to imagine the last time she felt taht way, and to get herself really into that emotion. tell her to let it just slowly boil up out of her, like its coming out of her pores. (your both doing this. you must lead for her to feel comfortable doing something this emotionally dedicated). the next step is to imagine all the emotion as an current of energy, just trapped in your body, and when you kiss the person, its like a conduit. the energy gets conducted to the other person, while their energy comes into your body(explain this to her). when you kiss her, really try to feel that emotion guys. imagine your lips are like the hands of a great artist. that artists uses his hands as a tool, to convey so much emotion and thought onto paper. her lips are your canvas. your lips are the hands and brush. believe me if you get yourself into the right mindset, and stop thining about kissing her, but instead conveying emotion with your lips, even if she doesnt do it properly and you feel nothing back, she will MELT. its something that turns on inside you. when you just get so emotionally into it, your lips turn into a conductor for those emotions guys. their not lips kissing anymore. forget that idea. their just an emotional conduit. do it properly. iv had situations in which ill do the soul kissing routine, and the girl, after were done kissing, will tell me how effected she feels. i usually get, "wow i really felt that." and i think this has some nlp subconcious effects, of you attaching all those good feelings she is bringing up with kissing you. the soul kissing technique can be deadly guys. 2 weeks ago im talking with this HB9 (loool!! thats the first time iv typed out PUA slang. i feel like such a nerd) any way this chick, i do the kissing thing, and as soon as we finish, (i just look at the girl in the eyes and wait for her to say something when its done) she pauses for a sec, looks back into my eyes, looks away embarresed for a sec. looks back, "that got me really wet." BOOM. lol. love it up. do it properly with the right mindset and u will jump mountains boys.