Hai Kmano,
I see your point.
I'm glad at least that you realise that games are not attractive, they're just entertaining.
Approach anxiety comes when you don't accept rejection for what it is. A girl can say no and that's fine. Period.
A girl can say no early, or she can say it later. If you come up with an excuse she might say it later but it's still a now and you waste time and energy.
If come up straight and tell her why you're there you'll get a rejection early (will it hurt your ego and your self esteem? it shouldn't) but on the other hand because you're upfront and honest this will be very attractive cause no-one does that, only a real man who can take rejection and risks (which is masculine and attractive) would do that...
So why don't you try that out instead of using excusing openers?
Just try it for yourself!
All the best,
Sorin.
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I don't think most people use these games to build attraction at all. The point is to give blundering talkers like me something to introduce into a conversation, which in a way removes the first and most devistating block in any guys subconcious, approach anxiety!
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