So I was talking on the phone with this one girl that ive known for a while that lives in another state.

her- so how was your weekend?
me- it was ok I was going to go to a party but it got canceled cus the guy got sick but hes throwing a party next weekend.
her- If I was there would you take me to partys?
me- No! you embarrase me ( I tryed to sound cocky)
her- Really!? (she said this in a I cant believe you just said that to me kind of tone.)
me- (I got shocked cus I thought she would laugh or something) no im just playing. Its that you behave bad.
her- I dont behave bad! (also said this in an i cant believe you said that tone.
me- If I took you to partys youd be drinking bear like your aunt (her aunts an alchoholic)
her- (still doesnt laugh) I dont drink bear! I dont even like it
me- (I start to laugh) what about that one party were you were drinking? (we were at a party one time)
her- That wasnt beer that was a margarita and I only drank a little plus you drank more than me
her- so what else have you done?

I tryed to act cocky during this part but she didnt laugh she just got shocked anyways after that she tryed, I Dont know why but she kind of started kissing up to me. She told me to come during winter vacation and some more stuff.

So did I mess up or did I do good? and if I messed up what can I do 2 make things better?

sounds like you did fine, but just outa curiousity, is her aunt an real alcoholic? like one with a problem? or is that just a label cause shes a party animal and is the relative that gets too plastered at parties yet everyone still loves?

i hope its not an actual problem cause you could be walking on some thin ice joking about a family issue that you arent fully aware of. however, if she ended it like you said she did, im sure everything went smoothly

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No her aunts like that one aunt that just gets drunk at paries doesnt have a problem but still everyone loves her cus she makes them laugh.

I reckon you did pretty good, she IOI'd you at the end by reinitiating the thread, which sounds promising to me.

Also, alot of information is lost over the phone. She might have been actually loving the negs, but the information never got to you. you know what I mean?

I reckon you still have all the chance in the world.

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that was well done, but be careful, you are pushing a lot. time to pull a bit.