I think something must me said on this. I feel like shit because I hooked up a few times and fell for a hb9 bartender not understanding how vulnerable women are. This is fucking painful when you find out your get cheated on right away with people you may know. I DONT THINK I EVER WANT TO DO THIS AGAIN! EVER! I hope that I dont lose respect for women over this shit but it is hard not to just get a burning fury when I think about it.
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I feel ya, I feel like shit as well, Im a junior in highschool in Brazil so Im not sure if my story is gonna make much sense to u, I was going out with this hb9 and she is really cute, like you would never think she was capable of doing what she did, everyone thought she was a really nice girl.., well she made out with a guy at a party I wasnt able to go to, she called me desperately the next day and told me everything and said she wasnt even able to sleep that night, but then she started talking about how she didnt feel our relationship was going anywhere and I saw where it was going so I dumped her.. I was feeling like shit, cause I really liked her, I actually dont have much experience with women, I used to be really shy and introverted when I was younger..so that means she was really important to me, but she doesnt feel the same way about me... So I went to this houseparty yesterday and she started making out with the same guy she cheated me with right in front of me!! I went crazy and got in a fight with him, it didnt escalate to anything fisical, I was furious and told her I didnt believe she would do that right in front of me and left the party. Im really mad at her and I dont know what to do, she is a manipulative bitch I really hope I dont loose respect for women aswell.. this was my first relationship and I feel just like you I DONT WANT TO EVER DO THIS AGAIN! EVER!

Guys I've been there before a while back, I know what you're thinking. Don't think that. Basically go to the Inner Game section of this forum and get reading. It'll help allot.

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I know this won't help much, but it s life, it wasn't meant to be. Have a cry, pick your self up, learn and become stronger for the experience. In a few months time you won't give a dam because you'll have some other hb hanging off your d..k.

We've all been there. Learning Pickup is like trying to catch all the water falling off Niagra Falls with a bucket. The point of all this is putting yourself in an optimal position to make an EMOTIONAL connection with a girl. If you do, hooking up will follow.

This is the point where all bets are off.

The future of your relationship rests on the emotional foundation you have mutually invested in each other. Girls, like guys, are looking for different types of relationships throughout their life. Some are looking for a one night stand, others a revenge-fuck (aimed at an ex-boyfriend or whatever her story is), some want to develop a healthy relationship, others don't want any type or relationship at all.

It's all in the cards my friend, just take comfort in that you have no control over where she is in her life, the best you can do is put yourself in the best possible position to make an emotional connection with your sarge. Take it with a grain of salt. Hope that helps.

i feel ya man, but your MO right now is to resist the temptation to give up. it's a struggle but you gotta roll with the punches. things like this are gonna tuffen up your skin so that you are more equipped to deal with the ups and downs in this world.

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