The other night I got lucky and was in a really conifdent mood. Slowly but descretely I was searching for a HB to game. En route I was talking to this minger who was pretty cool. Her friends were going to the dance floor and I was invited, so I danced for a bit then tounge downed her on the d-floor. After this I started gaming a HB7 in a 2 set for about half and hour getting good kino, she too invited me to the dance floor but i got stuck talking to my friends on the way so didnt end up catching up with her. I disabled her friend well though, she bought me a drink.

About one hour later I went to the upstairs club (which is an extension of this pub). I danced with a different minger for about one minute, tounged her down then left stright away. Hey, Mystery says do it for the practice right? HAHAHA

Anyway, I then danced around and found the HB7 I was gaming earlier. I go up and tease the absolute fuck out of her. I had her pushed up against the wall, Top Gun style, and was pulling back before kissing her. Evenetually I let my emotions run my game and just teased each other for the next hour on the dance floor making out. (Point noted here, I think i shouldnt have kissed so much and maybe done it once then teased her more but not kissed her untill I brought her home??????????IDEAS??????????????????????????????????????)

About a half hour before the place closes she leaves to go to the toilet. Im thinking fuck do I bail, do I stay and look like a loser who waits for girls when they go to the toilet, is she testing me, does she really just need to go to the toilet by? Her friend stayed and danced with me and then after about three minutes I realised i needed to go to so I went to the toilet. I came out and they were gone. I re-found them and she said 'OH I cant wait to use my butterfly when I get home.) Im like what the fuck is a butterfly. A dildo!! (yes I am an idiot). So, I paused for about 20 seconds like a dickhead and eventually came out with 'respect', but it was weeeeeelllllll past the time to say it. Then we kept talking and she says it to her friend so I can hear one more time. I still have noe fucking clue what she meant, was it saying im going to stick that thing up myself without you????

So hear I am kookishly thinking I have played it good down to the bone. When we get outside she says 'you're not fucking coming home with me'. GAME OVER. I think I may have escelated too much. So, she obviously would have known what was on my mind for when we get back to her house.

But the toilet situation and the dildo, rules are ment to be borken but in what circumstances.

What you guys think

Think of it like this: You can game any chick perfectly, but you can't bring anyone home. Some girls just wont do one night stands, the most you can get is a kiss/number close. I have some girl-friends that make an oath with each other not to go home with anyone before they even go to the bar, so sometimnes its just bad luck.

However, when she said that butterfly comment, thats a tough curveball, you should have dished something out like, "can i substitute" or something, that way you would have known right away if you were in or out and wouldnt have to wait around another half-hour to get shut down.

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You should have reframed everything she said as that you were turning her on. For example you're getting her so turned on she needs to relieve herself when she gets home. Also you could have went and built a bit of jelously by flirting with other women around her.

maybe you guys can help me.

i did a similar thing the other night. i gamed this chick and we were making out all night - she hails a cab and takes me back to her place cuz i'm too drunk to drive

After a good half hour of making out and kino escalation she says she's "sorry because i came all the way back to her apt and nothing more was going to happen" .... allright no biggie i still tried to get in her pants by pushing off and saying i was tired then pulling her back in but it didn't work.

next morning she was all over me but still no f-close. we exchanged numbers and i went home.

i must have done something wrong here right? if she brought me back to her place doesn't that mean that f-close was high probability and i fucked it up?

She saw you as a provider so she held off sex.

I suggest you to check in David DeAngelo's stuff:

David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating

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There is NO secret ingredient. Theres just you.

If she is not a complete slut you need to game her for 4-10 hours before trying to seduce her. I've been in the same situation except I actually started fucking the girl and she stopped me. I thought to myself this girl isn't worth 4-10 hours and I never answered her calls.

Also it seems like she was using some lmr (last minute resistance), you might have been able to wear it down my freezing her out, and waiting for her to want your attention instead of u being all over her.

Girls never want to seem like skanks, so sometimes even though they want to sleep with you, they'll do things like that.

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hey guys, thanks for all the tips good stuff.

in this particular situation, where i don't want to game the girl afterwards, i think LMR would work really well. I just have to get my two heads in line together ..... or just whip it out

assist: I don't think you did anything wrong... If you guys meet up one or two times again and you play your cards right she'll probably sleep with you Just try to not come off as needy and sex starved and it'll probably work out. It sounds like you know what you're doing.