Hi guys!

I have been told a lot of times that I give very good massages. So I am sure that being able to give a HB a massage would a good thing. The question is: What should I say to make her accept me giving her one? any good routines for that?

Also, Once you are giving her a massage, how do you escalate even further?

Thanks

Rabbitus

Hi my name is RabitPuss. I want to be in your friend zone. Can I please give you a massage..

If you have that skill, thats great. Use it if you get to see some skin.

Say she looks a little tense or stressed out. Then don't wait for her response, just say "come here" or go to her and start giving her a massage. But make sure you built some trust first. Then to take it further massage lower on her then try and tickle her. Blah blah blah....

this one's from "Penetrating The Game": you can ask her for a massage, then tell her she's got it all wrong! then say something like: here, lay down, I'll show you how it's done!

Presto!

Personaly, i wanna learn how to give a good massage, and one day I would like to date a masseuse! that'd be quite interesting so it's one of my goals in life lol

I've had girls lying on my bed complaining about their back hurting, yet for some reason giving her a massage is next to impossible to accomplish, or if she does allow it, she's so tensed up that she doesn't enjoy it in the least.

The thing that drives me nuts, is that I can make out with her and have sex with her, easier than give her a massage! I love giving massages though, so this is something I really want to figure out how to make happen easier. Any thoughts on that Bonita?

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I would say, if a girl won't let you give her a massage, then she prob is insecure about her body. During a massage, you are touching her and focused on her unlike during sex where your mind is somewhere a little different haha...try to get her to give you one and then it will seem more natural to give her one in return (a win-win situation). Or if she is sitting, don't even ask just approach her from behind and rub her shoulders.

Personally I have never objected to a massage. So I don't know what guys would do to overcome a "no." The only reasons why I could think a girl would object are:
1. She doesnt trust you enough yet
2. She is too ticklish


But I'll ask some of my friends on this one

I seem to have a thing for insecure girls, lol. Punk chicks often fall into that category from my experience, although they are very loud about how much they don't care about what people think, it is usually due to the fact that they are actually quite insecure and are overcompensating and trying to convince themselves. Damn you hot insecure punk girls!

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Okay, thanks a lot Bonita, thanks a lot guys!

well, as far as giving her a massage goes I'm not really sure how to help you with that one. Usually I don't give chicks massages unless I'm dating them, or unless I'm 100% we're going to have sex and it's just a form of foreplay, in which case it just kind of happens

But, once you get to the point where you're massaging her make sure she has her shirt off - Say you've had training and you refuse to do it any other way because it's insulting.

When her shirt is off in the middle of the massage just run one finger nail in randoma places of her back just grazing it. Make it's touching completely unpredictable and adjust pressure so that it doesn't tickle her too much - just a bit.

Then, while you're massaging her again (assuming she's on her stomach) lean forward and graze the side of her lower neck with your lips. By this point she'll either tackle you in a crazy and unexpected sex fit (yeah i was surprised too) or she'll at least turn her head enough for you to kiss her neck up to her lips. Go slow, and tease her. The longer you make it take the more wild it will drive her. That said, don't make a production out of it!

I'd like to hear how this goes for ya

CPT

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