Can You GamE a Girl That Youve Failed @ Gaming In The Past?



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 11:47 pm 
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You see its my little sisters birthday today and well one of her friends has an older sister thats a hb6-7 and well back in the day I had some major confidence problems and was a 100% AFC, so one day me and my family went to a theme park with her family and well at first everything started out great but then I dont know what happened I guess she lost interest in me. So What im trying to ask is can I still game her even though I failed in the past? (I didnt know barely anything about pickup in the past)


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 12:55 am 
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Of course you can, there are no set rules (well sort of).
But my advice: forget about her and talking to girls online. Just meet somebody new the next time you step outside and explore.
But on the hand, if you do get this girl it will show you just how far you've come, and picked up a girl who once wasn't interested.
Anyway you havn't seen her for a long time so its not like your friended or anything.
Just make sure you carry on meeting new girls in the mean time, it will take the importance off her.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 1:15 am 
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Nice eye catching post haha
and yes u can game her show the girl you're a changed man

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 3:48 am 
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There is no reason you cant re-game her. Let her see that she missed out on prob the best thing since the double ended fists of fury. Then she'll be like "damn... did I remember that guy right? I wonder if I still have a chance?"


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There's a portion of Mystery's book that deals with this subject...

Yes, you can do it

The past is exactly that, the past. You determine the future...


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 12:55 am 
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A lot of times I find that when I game a girl that I had no chance with in the past and even the girls I hooked up with and havent seen in a while, I am my own worst enemy. I worry about what they are thinking, I bring up the feelings of why she may have rejected me or why I stopped talking to her in the first place.

Start fresh, and speak to her as you would any other HB that you meet for the first time and you'll be fine.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 7:57 am 
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Of course you can. the extra obstacle you have is that, if she remembers your attempt from that long ago, there will be a pretense about you. Under normal circumstances your target knows absolutely nothing about you and you fill that void that reflects you as a smooth guy who she wants to sleep with. In your situation, she knows you as how you came off in your first attempt. How you performed last time will determine the height of the hurdle you have to clear.

To cut to the point, yes you can close someone you have failed to game in the past. The downside is there's an extra obstacle to overcome. Take your PUA knowledge and perform to the best of your ability and you should be able to do it.

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Yeah if you gave already failed, it will just be like gaming a 10. She already thinks she has higher social proof than you, and you have to demonstrate that she doesn't. Although because she already knows you, the isolate should be quite a bit easier. Don't let the comparison to a 10 throw you off though, it just means that you will have to neg her a bit more and probably be selective in your dhv's. At no point jump through her hoops, though. Unless you REALLY think it is TOTALLY ok. Make her earn it. You will at the very least get her interested again.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 7:24 am 
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Neg the crap out of her and have hooking up with her be the last thing on your mind. Then walk away and let her do the rest of the work.

I did this with my ex-girlfriend (whom i really haven't communicated with in a good year or so) about 3 days ago. She showed up randomly at one of my buddy's houses while I was there. I have 0 interest in her now, but i decided to neg her and make her attracted to me just to get even for the crap she pulled before. She just sent me a private message on myspace today. I probably won't choose to hook up with her. But it's nice taking that power back. (PS I don't give a shit if you think that's a dick thing to do)

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